You seem to be once again missing the point.
An example:
You don't like how I do something.
You post in the AB about how much of a cunt I am.
I see thread.
Nothing happens.
Versus
You don't like how I do something.
You talk to me about it.
We go from there.
You seem to know not what really goes on:
You have a problem with Moo
You go and tell X about how much of a cunt he is
You never actually tell Moo your problem because you're afraid of being socially owned
vs
You have a problem with Moo
You go and post the matter on the ab
You and other people whose identity you are not aware of, and who also aren't aware of YOUR identity, discuss the matter at hand
Moo joins the discussion, without anyone knowing it
Peace
Of course, it's a utopia, but so is yours. The difference is that you want to take down a blackboard because people could draw penises on them, and I want it to stay because someone could make a beautiful drawing about a wolf.