I'll stick my neck out for Stone here.
I was here when Stone initially joined, when he was promoted to reg, and now when he was banned.
Every single time I've talked with Stone in-game or over steam, he's been respectful. I realize this may be just because I haven't done anything against him for him to be angry or offended.
But think about it: everyone has people in-game and on the forums they dislike or disfavor for one reason or another; you treat them differently from other players. If you say you don't, you're a liar. I guarantee there is someone you would rather throw under the bus than help. Stone Cold expresses this dislike for certain players probably more outwardly than most others, through in-game actions and chat. Unfortunately, this dislike sometimes turns into RDM and/or could be interpreted as target RDM/first-blood.
If Stone wants to improve his relations with other players, these types of actions need to stop.I'm also still waiting for someone to tell me why he's such a valuable player.
He's a great personality to have on the server, he
knows the rules (see above), has a very strange (but awesome) sense of humor, and contributes atmosphere to the server. Stone's OP is correct in saying he's started phrases and trends on the server. The flare gun thing is one of them.
I agree that Stone shouldn't just be let off the hook for the stuff he's done. Instead of simply banning him and letting the rest sort itself out, help him reform and/or change some of his ways. Stop looking at all the bad, and look at the good he's brought to the server. Stone really is a good guy, but his bad moments tend to stand out more.