we have got only one thread were like a community we have discussed what is wrong and what is fine.
I don't really see anything wrong with this.
I've seen a lot of rule threads, and a lot of arguments about what is or isn't official.
I think discussing changes to the 
existing rules as a community is great  –  but admins and VIPs using discussion to justify bending 
real rules, or making their own just isn't cool!