How do I convince my stubborn mom?

[Seb]

I have a little sister.

Now, allow me to explain.

She eats everything.
She doesn't do what mom tells her to do.
She LIVES and FEEDS off of pissing me and my other sister off (and you guys know how level-headed I am).
She embarrasses my mom by starting fights with me and my other sister while friends/mom's boyfriend is over.
She has punched multiple holes in the house walls.
She steals things.
Not even kidding, a full 75% of what she says is utter horseshit. Not kidding. No hyperbole. If there was a scientific study on her, results would be 75% of what she says is a lie.
She breaks things.
She hits. HARD.
She threatens to get what she wants.
If she's angry, she'll straight up break somebody's things or unplug computers.
All she does is eat and watch Disney Crappel.

Now, here's where my mom comes in. My parents are divorced. The final punishments for my little sister is usually a permanent relocating to my dad's house. the problem is, she's said it multiple times. But she doesn't go through with it. She usually gets to the end of the cul-de-sac, and has only actually gotten to my dad's house once or twice but immediately U-Turned. My mom has now decided she won't do it. Whenever I mention how this sister is tearing the family apart, my mom gets angry.

Please.

How can I convince my mom to stop being so close-minded and blind and to actually see the damage this demon is doing?





tl;dr Bitch sister nid gtfo to dad's, mom won't give gtfo to dad's

[blαh2355]

Just confront your mom and have a private talk with her explaining why she needs to let her go. Unless you already did this then idk.

[Peetah]

If it comes to tat point.
You gunna need to use old school discipline.

She hits hard? Break her hands.
No more of this 12 year old girl bs.
Dont kill her though.

[Deacon]

this is
exactly what
my sister
is becoming.

but shes 12.

[Cable]

Write your mom a well thought out note.
With a note, You have time to carefully write each word.
If you go up to her, You cant really think about what you want to say for too long.

[Cep]

If she's breaking up the things that are important in your life, you've got to show her you can do the same. Even if it's oonly food and television.
After she's done something you don't like, tell her you are going to get revenge for it. And make sure she knows what you're talking about.
When the situation cools for a bit, remove her from her food or TV, even if you straight up snotrocket in her plate or throw it away.

She'll either realize you'll take action, or if she's the inability to reason, she'll just remain pissed as before.
And when/if your mother chastises you for doing something like this, explain to her that your sister has done much worse. In the most serious manner you can show, and getting your other sister to back you up won't hurt either.

And even if you don't take my advice, see this. I don't know how old you are but at some point you'll both grow up enough to where you can show her your side of the conflict, and move on.

[bipolardiz]

If it comes to tat point.
You gunna need to use old school discipline.

She hits hard? Break her hands.
No more of this 12 year old girl bs.
Dont kill her though.

I agree. A young girl in this situation is doing such things for two reasons.
1. being for attention.
2. because she feels unloved and misinterpreted.

She need to be bent over your mom's knee. And then given some ice cream or something.

Of course that is a just generalization based on the small bits of information that you have given ( and no im not asking for more. I would rather you not share more with the whole of the community unless you feel necessary.)

I have two questions. Have you tried family counseling? and have you talked to your little sister?

@Cep, I think that is a bad idea. To do something on his own without his mother's support will result in further family unrest. It must be like a group effort.

>edit. Also you must relize that your mother seeing this maybe harder than you relize. She may feel as if she is to blame and therefore unable to do anything.
>>Edit. Also whatever happens in the end I wish you luck and I hope  something in what I wrote helps. I know there isn't an exact answer but there really can't be. Main thing is communication. After all it is your mother's choice and it's a hard one at that.
Much love Seb

[Sabb]

Write your mom a well thought out note.
With a note, You have time to carefully write each word.
If you go up to her, You cant really think about what you want to say for too long.

Not a good idea.
sure, you would be able to carefully think every single word out, but it's hard to gain respect that way, and his mom would most likely take it as him not feeling able to confront her about things.

What I suggest doing (yea, I'm not an expert, and I don't know you or you family really, so it's kind of hard to help...) is talking privately to your mom when ever you get the chance. Make sure your sister is out of sight so that you can actually talk to her without her coming in and making it into a fight with just verbally attacking each other.

When you can do that, do it as soon as possible of course, but when you get the chance, really try to talk to her in a mature and calm manor, think of ways to impress her and show you have really thought every option through and PREPARE your argument before you talk to your mom. Think of any possible ways she might defend your sister or make excuses to allow her to stay before talking to your mom. This way she'll be able to see that you're really serious about the idea, and have really thought everything through before hand and gain respect and trust from her, and hopefully you can get her to truly listen to you.

[Cheesicle]

Do what I'd do.


















Beat the tobacco juice out of her.














"Her" being your sister.

[Tomcat]

When she isn't home disconnect the cable
She might get so pissed and flip out and then get deported to your dads house, but the question is , do you hate your sister that much

[Seb]

When she isn't home disconnect the cable
She might get so pissed and flip out and then get deported to your dads house, but the question is , do you hate your sister that much

Yep.

I thought that idea'd work too, but that just makes her eat everything.

[Tomcat]

Yep.

I thought that idea'd work too, but that just makes her eat everything.

WELD THE FRIDGE SHUT

how big is she?

[Seb]

WELD THE FRIDGE SHUT

how big is she?

She is 4'7" and 165lbs.

[Peetah]

She is 4'7" and 165lbs.

LOL She'll eat you.

[fenkeN]

She is 4'7" and 165lbs.