He started it :<
no he didn't
It doesn't matter who started it,you should have kindly told him that Juan didin't need 32 gigs of RAM and if he still responded rudely,just ignore him.
But clearly since he himself said he will be doing some editing,it wouldn't hurt for some extra RAM.
As for saivon,i think you should be abit more respectful towards other people.This is a community,not a flaming zone.