When is it okay to have sex?

[Nemisous]

I think this fits enough into the pg-13 guidelines if people don't go into "exploits" or advice. When is it okay to have sex? Does your age matter, or your feelings for the other person, how about how long you've been with that person?

Would you think it is fine for 13 year old kids to go at it, or 10, or 30? Is there a specific age when your brain is supposedly developed well enough to be able to handle the emotions involved with sex, or does that depend more on your personal experiences that an arbitrary thing like age can't rightly determine?

Should you only have sex for love, or with the intent of developing a long term relationship? Or are one night stands fine enough, or simple flings just to have fun without settling down? If you are going for a long term relationship then how much time must pass, or money spent, is enough for the girls to put out?

I've heard of the 2-3 month hurdle that wears out all of those puppy love emotions and relationships can start to strain afterwards if there isn't anything solid keeping the two together. Would you say waiting until after that hurdle is a good idea if you're attempting to find someone for the long term? Or would you prefer a 3,5,7 date kind of girl (are you one)? If a guy (and yes this would usually be the guy and not the girl with the problem, but there are exceptions) couldn't wait through 3 months of dating for sex then does that mean he is focusing more on the sex and less on the woman it is with, it might as well be with any other hot piece? Or rather, more on the destination and not the road traveled, not caring to build a foundation for a relationship just wanting to cross that finish line?

Sex complicates things, or at least it changes them in the relationship. Are you sure you're ready for those changes once sex is involved?

Also, why do men and women judge each other on their conquests? Men are either pigs or they've got game. Women are either whores or sluts for sleeping around. It is a pro for men and a con for women who share the same behavior. Well after all as the saying goes. What good is a lock that opens for many key?
credit for this idea goes to my friend TotalWeakman (you dont know him)

[Shawn]

FUCK TYPE SOMETHING OUT AND HIT "BACKSPACE" AND EVERYTHING GOT DELETED FUCK!!!!! ANYWAYS ONCE AGIAN

You should only have sex when you are sure you're ready other wise you'll regret it for the rest of your life, Don't do it because other say you should or because people tease you ONLY do it when you and that special person are ready. Your first time determines how you view sex for the rest of your life.

and yes this would usually be the guy and not the girl with the problem,

Hmm no stop being sexist. Women love sex just as much as guys in fact ALL of my ex's wanted sex more then i did.

It is a pro for men and a con for women who share the same behavior.

First, You've seen to many movies because in the real world most people don't act like that besides high schools who haven't grown up yet. Secondly once again STOP being sexist some women take pride in who they sleep with/how many just as much as men do, gender doesn't matter, I actually have an ex who went to the "extreme" with the "conquests" thing She had a ranking system for every guy shes slept with, with sub-category's for ranking... IE: Size, endurance Ect (And its was a fairly long list Lol)

I don't know where you got your info from but you couldn't be further from the truth.

Anyways to sum up
Only have sex when you're sure!
Stop being sexist.

and thats it.

[Jman]

Derp.

/thread

[Deacon]

Don't have sex with someone if you can't see yourself with them for a long time.
Cause you might have a kid with that person.
Cause you didn't check the condom for the holes your bitch-of-an-ex poked into them.



In all seriousness, its not a set thing: It's when you and your partner think you're ready.

/LOLIMSTILLVIRGIN

[Supertoaster]

Im not trying to joke. But how would this apply to gays?

[Deacon]

Im not trying to joke. But how would this apply to gays?

The same way.
You and your partner decide you're ready.

[Devie]

I feared that it may complicate things. We spoke about it. I was scared of the change it'll cause especially since we were a lot younger.

I didn't know whether we were gonna be together forever or not, but what I did know is that I love this person. Did I know what love was at that time? No I did not, but I can definitely differentiate the feelings I had because they were not normal feelings I would feel for any regular person. To me, that was enough to call "love". But of course, the other person has to feel the same way.

So in the end, it doesn't matter what age you are as long as you do feel some kind of emotional connection with your partner, and vice versa.
It's better that way than to lose your virginity to someone named "Keke" at a party last night.

[Frank]

The same way.
You and your partner decide you're ready.

What if I get him preggo? :X

[Don]

What if I get him preggo? :X

>get him preggo

[Frank]

>get him preggo

It works the same way


Anyway, I think a being should fuck when it feels ready, knows the causes and consequences, why/why nots, etc. It should never be forced. Forced things never end up well.

[Shawn]

What if I get him preggo? :X

Morning after pill.

[Deacon]

lose your virginity to someone named "Keke" at a party last night.

What if "keke" was REALLY SPUER HAWT?!?!1q

[Devie]

What if "keke" was REALLY SPUER HAWT?!?!1q

Riding the bull:
As a girl play it kinky and tie his arms on the bed then get on top of him, ride him like you usually do the cowgirl sex position.
Now proceed on telling him you have an STD.

Stay on his dick as long as you can.

That's how KeKe gives diseases out because shes a disease carrying whore.

[cogsandspigots]

>get him preggo

[Deacon]

Riding the bull:
As a girl play it kinky and tie his arms on the bed then get on top of him, ride him like you usually do the cowgirl sex position.
Now proceed on telling him you have an STD.

Stay on his dick as long as you can.

That's how KeKe gives diseases out because shes a disease carrying whore.

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-insert awkward twitching here-