I don't quite know what happened here. I know roasthawk is a large troll, or at least tries to be, and comes off as very annoying in-game. I can't, however, say determine what he is asking. I believe that Jman and Ruben were being raided by roasthawk, then once he blew up their mobile spawns, one of them blew him up with ass_diarrhea.
Tell me if I'm wrong.
- Roasthawk raids Jman's base.
- Roasthawk destroys Jman's Mobile Spawn Points.
- Jman gets mad because ___________.
- Jman assplodes Roasthawk.
- Roasthawk is upset (reasonably so, if this is the case).
Now, given your history, I'd like to hear his side of the story. If you were poking your head up through his props, then yes, you were exploiting. I don't know that he handled it in the best way, but still. This requires further information.