Provide the year, the server, and the person.
In 2009, the first Garrys mod server I joined was RND's Zombie Survival. At the time I was 11, so I can predict why I didn't make any friends right away. The first person who became friends with me was FBER, who isn't really a RND member. He just used to play ZS a lot. Then I became good pals with Smasters soon after.