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Is love worth it?
Shawn:
Sorry dude I'm on her side I've been screwed too many times by females. Hence way I've been single for so many years now. I do agree that being alone is depressing and hurts but when you get hurt by someone you truly loved there is no comparison to that hurt, time does not heal all wounds!
"why does she keep going back into relationships??"
Thats human nature we find comfort in familiarity.
○ Μαρία ○:
Honestly, I've never been in a relationship myself either, so it is a bit hard to say, but my views on love/relationships are this:
Being alone might seem like a better option only because, you would only have yourself to please and no one else, and you would never have to worry about the heartbreak; as much as I would like to be with someone, I think that for a relationship to really work, you can't just like a person, you need to be friends with that person, best friends. Too many people now days get into relationships with people they've only known for a couple days or weeks, thinking they know the person; and then in short period of time (sometimes this isn't the case but generally) they realize that they really aren't meant for each other, and that they didn't know them as much as they really thought they did. Also, there is that sexual drive that causes people to get together, only to realize that there is more to a relationship then just sex. Now to choose whether to be single or to be together really depends on the people. When you find that person who you can talk about anything with, and that your time isn't spent smooching on each other, but actually being together and doing things, that in my opinion is a true relationship, and with that in your grasp you really shouldn't have that many conflicts. You'll know how to talk to each other so that you can avoid problems. In honesty, love is worth it in the sense that you have someone to be happy and share happiness with. Isn't that all a person could ask for?
My friends tend to go back to the person they break up with as well, and always say that same thing "I'm done with guys blah blah blah" But they're the type of people I think, that look at dating someone as an accessory. "Being single isn't as cool as being in a relationship apparently" So when they break up with their boyfriend/girlfriend, all they complain about is how they can't stand being single. What? Can't stand being single? What about "I can't stand how sad it is to lose that wonderful friendship we had, it's really upsetting." Nope, that's just how a lot of people are now days, they can't stand not being able to say "I'm in a relationship with someone" on their facebook, it's quite unfortunate.
(sorry about the tl;dr)
Peetah:
Love is something people use too loosly.
Has no real scale.
Can be a feeling or something irreplaceable.
Kinda obvious what it currently is.
Seb:
Love is nonexistent, it's glorified lust with genuine attraction sprinkled in.
I'd get in depth but I've been awake for three days.
Ἆxule:
--- Quote from: gamefreak171 on January 07, 2012, 08:28:14 PM ---It hurts more to be with the wrong person, but finding the right one is worth it.
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Well then you're going to get badly hurt anyways, unless by pure chance you happen to meet "the one" first. But that is true none the less.
--- Quote from: Shawn on January 07, 2012, 09:26:38 PM ---Sorry dude I'm on her side I've been screwed too many times by females. Hence way I've been single for so many years now. I do agree that being alone is depressing and hurts but when you get hurt by someone you truly loved there is no comparison to that hurt, time does not heal all wounds!
"why does she keep going back into relationships??"
Thats human nature we find comfort in familiarity.
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Is it worth to have never loved at all though? Seeing as I've never been with anyone, I've never felt that kind of connection with someone. I know I'll get hurt eventually, but I can't imagine the hurt being as bad as the hurt from being alone. You'll hurt for awhile, no doubt, but when you're alone, it's always hurting.
--- Quote from: KHMarie12 on January 07, 2012, 09:50:31 PM ---Honestly, I've never been in a relationship myself either, so it is a bit hard to say, but my views on love/relationships are this:
Being alone might seem like a better option only because, you would only have yourself to please and no one else, and you would never have to worry about the heartbreak; as much as I would like to be with someone, I think that for a relationship to really work, you can't just like a person, you need to be friends with that person, best friends. Too many people now days get into relationships with people they've only known for a couple days or weeks, thinking they know the person; and then in short period of time (sometimes this isn't the case but generally) they realize that they really aren't meant for each other, and that they didn't know them as much as they really thought they did. Also, there is that sexual drive that causes people to get together, only to realize that there is more to a relationship then just sex. Now to choose whether to be single or to be together really depends on the people. When you find that person who you can talk about anything with, and that your time isn't spent smooching on each other, but actually being together and doing things, that in my opinion is a true relationship, and with that in your grasp you really shouldn't have that many conflicts. You'll know how to talk to each other so that you can avoid problems. In honesty, love is worth it in the sense that you have someone to be happy and share happiness with. Isn't that all a person could ask for?
My friends tend to go back to the person they break up with as well, and always say that same thing "I'm done with guys blah blah blah" But they're the type of people I think, that look at dating someone as an accessory. "Being single isn't as cool as being in a relationship apparently" So when they break up with their boyfriend/girlfriend, all they complain about is how they can't stand being single. What? Can't stand being single? What about "I can't stand how sad it is to lose that wonderful friendship we had, it's really upsetting." Nope, that's just how a lot of people are now days, they can't stand not being able to say "I'm in a relationship with someone" on their facebook, it's quite unfortunate.
(sorry about the tl;dr)
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I can totally understand. It's annoying to see those people who date for like 2 weeks, then never speak to each other again.
I really admire those people who stick with each other forever. especially in High School. It fills me up with hope that one day I'll be that lucky as to find someone special. But the more I think about it, the more I feel like it's better to be alone. I just don't want that though.
I'm just weird I guess : /
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