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Ἆxule:
My best friend (who is a girl) are having a heated discussion right now. It's really annoying me because she doesn't seem to understand my view. of course, I probably don't understand her view either. So I came to you guys to see what your view is, and whether or not you agree with me or her.
Spoiler (click to show/hide)I don't care about winning this argument. I just simply want to know if it's worth it.
The main conflict:  It's better to be alone then be in a relationship with someone.

She's been having a hard time getting over someone lately, and so she was telling me how today she almost made the mistake of going back to this dude. A few texts later and I start to lose it. She's telling me it's better to be alone then be with someone you like (or love, whichever). This was a hard hit to the heart because I myself have never even been in a real relationship. What started setting me off is that she's been in relationships, and she keeps going back to them. She's never had to deal with being alone like I have, and yet here she is telling me that dating hurts more than being alone. If it hurt so much, why does she keep going back into relationships??

I get that either way, it hurts. But which one is more worth it? The long, continuous pain of having no one there to experience what it's like being human. Or does it hurt more when you two get in a fight and break up?  Though I've never felt what it's like to be hurt in terms of a broken relationship, I think it's still worth it, don't you?

She countered this by saying that all guys are the same. All they want is sex, and is always thinking about sexual things. she said that because of that, people are always going to get hurt. Yeah, I get it, men are sexual beasts. It's who we are, it's in out blood. That's how we were built. The difference is those guys who actually TRY to control it, rather than those who will do anything in their power to experience it.

There is a little bit more, but this is all you really need to understand whats going on.

Is it worth it?

ursus:
It hurts more to be with the wrong person, but finding the right one is worth it.

Cake Faice:

--- Quote from: gamefreak171 on January 07, 2012, 08:28:14 PM ---It hurts more to be with the wrong person, but finding the right one is worth it.

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Doctor Who:

--- Quote from: gamefreak171 on January 07, 2012, 08:28:14 PM ---It hurts more to be with the wrong person, but finding the right one is worth it.

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But it takes a couple of weeks or months to figure out if you're with the right person

ursus:

--- Quote from: Doctor Who on January 07, 2012, 08:34:10 PM ---But it takes a couple of weeks or months to figure out if you're with the right person

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I think you missed the part where I said "finding the right one is worth it"

As in, worth all the shit.

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