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Is love worth it?
Travelsonic:
So far my story has been going well - but then again, maybe two people with the same behaviors, quirks, and disorders work perfectly together.
○ Μαρία ○:
--- Quote from: Ἆxule on January 07, 2012, 11:21:32 PM ---Well then you're going to get badly hurt anyways, unless by pure chance you happen to meet "the one" first. But that is true none the less.
Is it worth to have never loved at all though? Seeing as I've never been with anyone, I've never felt that kind of connection with someone. I know I'll get hurt eventually, but I can't imagine the hurt being as bad as the hurt from being alone. You'll hurt for awhile, no doubt, but when you're alone, it's always hurting.
I can totally understand. It's annoying to see those people who date for like 2 weeks, then never speak to each other again.
I really admire those people who stick with each other forever. especially in High School. It fills me up with hope that one day I'll be that lucky as to find someone special. But the more I think about it, the more I feel like it's better to be alone. I just don't want that though.
I'm just weird I guess : /
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I think you have that feeling, because you see the failure in others relationships, which turns you off from the topic entirely. Just like when you see a couple together happy, you feel a complete opposite feeling; at least, that's just me.
Devie:
There was a shit ton of pain, hurt and saddness during the course of my 6 year relationship.
It wasnt always a pretty picture. We weren't always happy the way we were with eachother.
It was really difficult and sometimes we both thought about giving up and moving on to different people.
6 years we've been together - about 4 years of it consisted of pain and endurance to stay with eachother.
It took two to fix it. Our relationship is 10000x better now because both of us decided to finally fix it as one.
it's always hard for me to talk about this because what we went through was complete hell. But what I learned was
when things are starting to get rough, don't just give up and find the next person. If you honestly really do love that person
you'll be willing to do anything to fix it.. and vice versa.
I mean, at the end of the day, it feels good to have someone to be there for you. Play games with you, and share common interests with.
I know I'll never find a person like him and he'll never find a person like me.
We did have a rough life but we stuck it through.
So yes, it's worth loving another human being, there will be no other better love story than the one you create on your own.
Kurt Vile "Baby's Arms"
coolzeldad:
I might be crazy but I believe the ups and downs of love make it worthwhile.
To me it's better than a stagnant experience going without it.
Ἆxule:
--- Quote from: KHMarie12 on January 07, 2012, 11:42:45 PM ---I think you have that feeling, because you see the failure in others relationships, which turns you off from the topic entirely. Just like when you see a couple together happy, you feel a complete opposite feeling; at least, that's just me.
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You're right. I always try my best to learn from other peoples mistakes, but when I look at those who are happy together, then whats the mistake?
--- Quote from: Devie ♥ on January 07, 2012, 11:53:30 PM ---There was a shit ton of pain, hurt and saddness during the course of my 6 year relationship.
It wasnt always a pretty picture. We weren't always happy the way we were with eachother.
It was really difficult and sometimes we both thought about giving up and moving on to different people.
6 years we've been together - about 4 years of it consisted of pain and endurance to stay with eachother.
It took two to fix it. Our relationship is 10000x better now because both of us decided to finally fix it as one.
it's always hard for me to talk about this because what we went through was complete hell. But what I learned was
when things are starting to get rough, don't just give up and find the next person. If you honestly really do love that person
you'll be willing to do anything to fix it.. and vice versa.
I mean, at the end of the day, it feels good to have someone to be there for you. Play games with you, and share common interests with.
I know I'll never find a person like him and he'll never find a person like me.
We did have a rough life but we stuck it through.
So yes, it's worth loving another human being, there will be no other better love story than the one you create on your own.
Kurt Vile "Baby's Arms"
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I would be willing to fight for her (when I have someone). All that pain, anger, and sadness, I'd be willing to go through just to hold her in my arms. Besides, she (still when if I have someone) will add something in my life that I've never had. My life seems boring and dull now, with no interesting story to tell. With someone in my life, I think all of that would go away. The loneliness, the dullness.
--- Quote from: coolzeldad on January 08, 2012, 12:00:22 AM ---I might be crazy but I believe the ups and downs of love make it worthwhile.
To me it's better than a stagnant experience going without it.
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I can understand that. It's like always being fed sweets. Eventually you get sick of it. But once you start adding in the healthy, and sometimes nasty, food in there, that's when the sweet food becomes even more desirable and sweet.
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