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Being a woman in a server majority populated by guys.
« on: March 05, 2010, 07:11:40 PM »
By now I know most of you have figured I'm a young woman in my 18th years of age..
And also, you guys know I play an awful lot of games on steam. Mostly, garrysmod and I stick around RND's server - specifically, zombie survival.

I admit, It's sort of hard to cope up with the fact that people ask me weird questions or talk down on me because of my gender. An example of this would be;
"Are you really a chick?"
"Yes"
"Prove it. Show me your tits."

"Are you really female or are you some 40 year old guy who likes to masterbate?"
"No. I really do have a vagina"
"But you still like to masterbate right?"

And the classic;
"Stfu woman. men are talking"

I know most of you will probably say;
"Suck it up.
Get over it.
What's your point?
Where are you going with this?
What do you want us to do?
No one cares
Dumb bitch, go back to your nail polish and barbies"

I know, I know, everyone is right. And don't worry. I will get over it.
I just wanted most of you, (or the little group that cares) to understand where I'm getting at. How its like for me, from my point of view. I just tend to ignore everything. I minimize my usage of mic to avoid conflict. Or anything started. I just wanted to share how its like in my eyes. I hope you guys understand.
By no means I made this post to bitch and whine like your stereotypical girl. I'm not a stereotype. I am deviant. I apologize if it seemed like so.




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Re: Being a woman in a server majority populated by guys.
« Reply #1 on: March 05, 2010, 07:16:22 PM »
Thats why you often don't see girl gamers. Tis a shame that gmod neckbeards don't know how to talk to a lady.

Well, if one of the rnds are on you got our back :D


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Re: Being a woman in a server majority populated by guys.
« Reply #2 on: March 05, 2010, 07:20:15 PM »
you see
gmod servers have what we call arab mingiez
they dun like giving girls rights
but i still <3 you

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Re: Being a woman in a server majority populated by guys.
« Reply #3 on: March 05, 2010, 07:47:05 PM »
Aww that's sweet :D
Thanks guys


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Re: Being a woman in a server majority populated by guys.
« Reply #4 on: March 05, 2010, 07:50:28 PM »
We all love and support you.

"No. I really do have a vagina"

EPIC!

If I'm ever on Zs at the same time you are, and someone disrespectes you, BEWARE.


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Re: Being a woman in a server majority populated by guys.
« Reply #5 on: March 05, 2010, 07:57:22 PM »
why not exercise your respected powers? maybe they'll get the hint.

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Re: Being a woman in a server majority populated by guys.
« Reply #6 on: March 05, 2010, 07:59:43 PM »
>:D
THAT'S MY FPS!

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Re: Being a woman in a server majority populated by guys.
« Reply #7 on: March 05, 2010, 08:08:21 PM »
why not exercise your respected powers? maybe they'll get the hint.

I don't want to abuse my respected power. lol.


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Re: Being a woman in a server majority populated by guys.
« Reply #8 on: March 05, 2010, 08:15:47 PM »
I don't want to abuse my respected power. lol.

how's it abuse to kick ppl that keeps insulting or harassing you?

if its really bothering you, just utilize the report section and an admin will swing the ban hammer depending on the case.
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Re: Being a woman in a server majority populated by guys.
« Reply #9 on: March 05, 2010, 08:21:14 PM »
how's it abuse to kick ppl that keeps insulting or harassing you?

Well if people do it constantly then kicking will be a regular routine, I dont want that. I only ban if someone glitches or hacks, and being minges. lol. I don't ban for personal reasons. I ban if it affects the whole server. I just try to be a big girl and suck it up. It takes awhile to get used to but .. It's possible. Thank you for your concern though :) I didn't think anyone gave a crap.


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Re: Being a woman in a server majority populated by guys.
« Reply #10 on: March 05, 2010, 10:52:02 PM »
lol, men? They are all 12~15 year old boys xD
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Re: Being a woman in a server majority populated by guys.
« Reply #11 on: March 06, 2010, 05:41:03 AM »
I don't want to abuse my respected power. lol.

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Re: Being a woman in a server majority populated by guys.
« Reply #12 on: March 06, 2010, 07:34:09 AM »
lol, men? They are all 12~15 year old boys xD

LOL yeah apparently they see themselves as "men".
When they're nowhere near being one.


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Re: Being a woman in a server majority populated by guys.
« Reply #13 on: March 06, 2010, 07:52:39 AM »
They are just nib furfags that sit on the computer 24/7, they aren't used to girls, don't mind 'em =D
Girls on Gmod iz gud.

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Re: Being a woman in a server majority populated by guys.
« Reply #14 on: March 06, 2010, 07:59:25 AM »
Btw your one of a few ppl that are 18+ in RND =O  (amirite?  :-\ )