To Do list to be a good server owner -
1. Unban Buddha (Properly)
2. Find out more about the person you're going at. If someone is a legit player, doesn't minge or grief, and has a couple stacks of duped items, let it be.
3. Update the server, don't put off til' whenever you feel like it.
4. Make sure you know what you're blowing up. If you just randomly place TNT everywhere, you're as bad as the minges you ban.
5. Made 'Death' an admin.
Talk to your players more. Don't always assume the worst.
Be a bit more vigilant. You blew up out 3rd reed and wheat farm for christs sakes.
This is why I don't like playing when you're online.