I don't totally despise and hate my mother, nor do I wish death upon her, but shit man she pisses me off with the things she says. She used to do it my older siblings too but unlike them, I sort of just don't take it. I was walked all over ALOT when I was a kid, so now I just don't take shit from anyone, ESPECIALLY not my own mother. If she has a snarky rude comment to make about me, she can keep it to her damn self.
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It's also really bad because I have those strict-ass religious parents who think everything on the internet is demonic..
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sucks cuz my parents have everything "planned" for me in my life. They went ahead and planned every major event that will happen in my life.
They say when I should get a job, when I should move out, when I should marry, how my wedding will be like, the color theme of my wedding, the type of house I should live in, the type of person I should be, the type of education and career I should have, the type of wife I should be, the type of daughter I should be, the personality I should have, the beliefs I should believe, the type of guy I should marry, how this said guy should act, etc..
yeah fuck that shit. I'm not allowed to move out until my hand is asked for marriage. They're in for a big big biggg surprise. I went to boston last year and I knew theyd be against that because they hate the fact that I'm doing things on my own without their approval.. I went ahead and bought the plane tickets before I told them and they reacted angrily but what are they gonna do? It's too late since I bought the tickets already.
I'm putting a downpayment for our apartment first.. then tell them I'm moving out. It's gonna piss them off but... I can't stand being unhappy living in a home where people think of you this way.
We're not bad kids right? We don't do drugs, get drunk, steal shit, go to jail, have piercings all over our bodies and faces, or tattoos on the wrong places.. or fuck everything out there. We're pretty decent children.. yet why do they act like we're the worst?