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When is it okay to have sex?
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Well, Loopholes aside or whatever.
Spoiler (click to show/hide)I'm probably the most ready person for... sex.
Not to say it like that. But the whole idea in general. I'm on top of it.
... anyways.
All I know is if anyone shares even 1/16th of my mind then I don't need to explain myself.
Basically, my Limit (At this point) would be 14.
And that's for consensual/social things.
I mean for anyone else out there, if you know what it is you're doing (FOR SURE), well, okay (-13 and under getting sexually involved).
I'm just not getting near anyone under 14, and even then I'm weary- because it's ALL about sex and nothing else.
It also just doesn't seem right to me. Even if you were to think outside of the box.
No. Can't condescend/be above physical things like that. At least from my POV.
And then that is where I play along with the "OMG HE'S LIEK MY BF GUIS FOEVER AND EVR" guise and nothing else.
Rare chance that they are a precocious person; then still that "OMG FOEVER N EVRR" shit, just to a lesser extent. No sex. Not even nekkids. The farthest I'd go would be dirty jokes and hugs.
Noep.
Now, later on, If there's any sexual intercourse or talk thereof; I'm sorry, you must be this tall to ride. (16, most likely 17 unless you can prove to me otherwise that you can handle this like a mature perso- ...I sound like a Parent... But it's true. I don't even plan on getting anyone pregnant until I have a solid enough place to settle down in my life- I don't want to bring someone into this wold only to have them turn into a melancholic being of self-hatred, or have their mother (Mother?) walk out on them cause all they wanted was the Benefits for having a child (Teenmomyanoplz)...
Or even put stress on the mother (Mother?) because she has/had no idea what she was getting herself into when she said "I want to have Children".
Yeah, I'm thinking about other people than myself, too.
Spoiler (click to show/hide)It's a paradox because I never had a dadeh.
Or any other scenario that sucks. Dey nid gud laif. Both sides. Thought that was the whole point of being given the chance to live/giving birth to life .-.
I won't disagree, though,on the topic that if someone was to legitimately end their life- that's their thing. Especially if they can convince me otherwise. It's possible.
It isn't so much wrong to end one's self in my POV except for when you make everyone else sad- because they knew you and you just suddenly decided to disappear without even consulting them and maybe NOT deciding to do what you set out to...
Like a Cancer patient in incredible pain with no cure and tumors all over. I'm not in a place to decide whether or not they live or die, they're suffering already. Their life, they can choose.
But enough about death (again, lol).
I don't do one-night-stands. I can, but I don't.
And I don't have children with just anyone.
Especially if you're going around in my wallet or poking condoms in my h- I mean poking holes in my condoms. <I legit just made that mistake without knowing for 5 minutes. It's still funny so I'll keep it.
And especially, the last thing I need is you going off and telling EVERYONE about "tehsexd". No thanks, I'll just keep it in my pants, then.
Plus, for me, sex is the Do-all-end-all for some serious shit. Commitment.
I don't walk out on people if they mean it ._. Even if it were to drive me crazy.
Even if they're infertile. That works better, then. Not that it's a good thing, but now you just can't have a baby.
Whatever floats your said boat.
I could honestly live without sex; but I can't live without love, or a sense of positive emotions whatsoever.
Then again I could lock myself in a room and be perfectly content. But that's just me.
It's like a switch. You either turn me On and actually touch my buttons- or leave me Off and don't bother buying me.
... I'll stop now.
Ἆxule:
I believe on what mostly has been said.
I honestly don't believe I would stay a virgin when I got into a serious relationship before I get married. I just don't see that happening, but it is possible. I can control myself well enough. That's besides the point.
What I'm trying to get at is that sex in my eyes is a way of revealing your whole self to another. It's like saying, "This is who I am, and I trust you enough so that I can reveal myself to you."
You wouldn't want to reveal every, single detail about yourself to some random stranger you've known for a week would you?
If you and your partner have discussed about things such as possible STD's, what if you two had a child (Abortion, stay at home mom/dad, etc.), as well as whether you two were serious about it and loved each other, then it's alright.
How does being married make any difference to your experience? The only way I see it is if you let it bother you, but it shouldn't if you two are for real.
For me, I'm not so worried as to having sex before marriage. As long as my first (and hopefully last, but w/e) time is with someone I truly love and care for, then I know I won't regret anything. If I end up getting her pregnant, I want her to have the child. I'm not a strong believer in killing a fetus. (I don't care about your opinions). I'm fully willing to accept my actions and work my fingers to the bone to support a family, even if I'm only 16 (as of right now).
As a woman, I believe you have more to think about before having sex because some men are just there for the action, then gone forever. If you end up with a child, the woman is screwed and either has to choose something she doesn't want to do and what not.
The guy however can just make a hit and run and not have to worry about the kid.
Overall, make sure you can trust each other, make sure you have gone over every little factor that goes with sex, and most of all, be sure both of you are relaxed about the idea. If you're stressed about the idea, obviously you're not ready and/or you have doubts about each other.
Frank:
--- Quote from: Ἆxule on December 07, 2011, 06:55:36 PM ---I believe on what mostly has been said.
I honestly don't believe I would stay a virgin when I got into a serious relationship before I get married. I just don't see that happening, but it is possible. I can control myself well enough. That's besides the point.
What I'm trying to get at is that sex in my eyes is a way of revealing your whole self to another. It's like saying, "This is who I am, and I trust you enough so that I can reveal myself to you."
You wouldn't want to reveal every, single detail about yourself to some random stranger you've known for a week would you?
If you and your partner have discussed about things such as possible STD's, what if you two had a child (Abortion, stay at home mom/dad, etc.), as well as whether you two were serious about it and loved each other, then it's alright.
How does being married make any difference to your experience? The only way I see it is if you let it bother you, but it shouldn't if you two are for real.
For me, I'm not so worried as to having sex before marriage. As long as my first (and hopefully last, but w/e) time is with someone I truly love and care for, then I know I won't regret anything. If I end up getting her pregnant, I want her to have the child. I'm not a strong believer in killing a fetus. (I don't care about your opinions). I'm fully willing to accept my actions and work my fingers to the bone to support a family, even if I'm only 16 (as of right now).
As a woman, I believe you have more to think about before having sex because some men are just there for the action, then gone forever. If you end up with a child, the woman is screwed and either has to choose something she doesn't want to do and what not.
The guy however can just make a hit and run and not have to worry about the kid.
Overall, make sure you can trust each other, make sure you have gone over every little factor that goes with sex, and most of all, be sure both of you are relaxed about the idea. If you're stressed about the idea, obviously you're not ready and/or you have doubts about each other.
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Yeah, but a chick can't do the same? You know, fuck you, get preggo, get welfare, have her family raise the kid, she dumps you and doesn't give a fuck.
Men aren't the only pigs.
Ἆxule:
--- Quote from: Frank on December 07, 2011, 08:25:59 PM ---Yeah, but a chick can't do the same? You know, fuck you, get preggo, get welfare, have her family raise the kid, she dumps you and doesn't give a fuck.
Men aren't the only pigs.
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What if her parents aren't going to take the child?
and even if they do, the mother will always have that child. Or, at least he/she always will be in the family.
A guy can just fuck and forget it ever happened.
Nemisous:
--- Quote from: Ἆxule on December 07, 2011, 08:27:48 PM ---What if her parents aren't going to take the child?
and even if they do, the mother will always have that child. Or, at least he/she always will be in the family.
A guy can just fuck and forget it ever happened.
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not always, the female can have the male pay child support. but i think a DNA test has to be made.
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