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.:`=-~rANdOm~`-=:. Game Servers (Read Only) => Discussion => Topic started by: Sabb on March 10, 2012, 04:58:29 PM
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If you didn't get it by my stupid joke, why the hell has everyone been so pissy lately? I noticed everyone's being incredibly short and douchey constantly now... I want to know why. No one wants to answer me directly, so I hope a thread will actually get someone to respond...
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Because people keep making threads like this.
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Because people keep making threads like this.
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Do you want me to change the title? Seriously... I see no problem with what I posted AT ALL.
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Probably from the clashing shitfeasts of the anonyboards.
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Do you want me to change the title? Seriously... I see no problem with what I posted AT ALL.
I do. You're just asking for it to be brought out again, which will just result in more problems. If you want to know, ask through PM.
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Probably from the clashing shitfeasts of the anonyboards.
People weren't being bitchy while there were posts on these forums about it though... but are people still posting stupid shit there? I haven't heard any complaints recently.
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I do. You're just asking for it to be brought out again, which will just result in more problems. If you want to know, ask through PM.
If you didn't get it by my stupid joke, why the hell has everyone been so pissy lately? I noticed everyone's being incredibly short and douchey constantly now... I want to know why. No one wants to answer me directly, so I hope a thread will actually get someone to respond...
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Do you want me to change the title? Seriously... I see no problem with what I posted AT ALL.
Maybe I was too vague.
People have been making threads and posts asserting that theres something wrong with others.
They imply in said post that there is nothing wrong with themself.
Other people feel offended and do the same.
This post isn't exempt, and I realize that.
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You guys seriously need to chill ._.
My guess its the fact that a lot of us have been having school work/jobs to do, or so I think.
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the community is dying
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Tensions rise as we spend more time with each other. As we become more familiar we care less about ignoring all the little bullshit that makes us upset.
The community isn't dying, it's changing. And from the look of it people don't like that.
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I think the big part was when the posts started to go missing. Anyway. We're all friends and we hate each other. We're like frenemies. Although we hate eachother we all oughta stick together right?
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the community is dying
It's not that.
If you lock people up in a room long enough, no matter how much they like each other, they'll start finding stupid things to argue about.
The trend I've noticed is that after people have been here for a year or so, they start thinking about leaving. Usually a mixture of "well the people who I played with aren't here anymore", "it's just not the same", and other variants cause people to feel that the community is dying/going to shit/etc.
I kind of went through that phase a while back, but you either accept that things change, or move on.
Anyways, I kind of drifted off there.
tl;dr Tension.
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Okay, fuck you Deacon for beating me to it. ;_;
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Tensions rise as we spend more time with each other. As we become more familiar we care less about ignoring all the little bullshit that makes us upset.
The community isn't dying, it's changing. And from the look of it people don't like that.
^Everything that I tried to explain and more.
Snivy too sloooww <3
Just calm down and stop making posts you know as a fact is going to upset someone. A lot of shit has been going on and it's a bit easier to aggravate some of us.
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Maybe I was too vague.
People have been making threads and posts asserting that theres something wrong with others.
They imply in said post that there is nothing wrong with themself.
Other people feel offended and do the same.
This post isn't exempt, and I realize that.
To be honest, I don't see that I've done anything to piss anyone off. I made a fairy miniscule assumption in the thread about Don having deleted posts before I read the entire situation, because I felt it wasn't necessary... I shouldn't have done that, but that wasn't a big problem. Aside from that, I honestly don't think I have done anything to anger anyone.
And of course, tensions rise as people stay around eachother more... but it was a drastic change... out of no where, everyone's starting to flip shit in a split second. For example... sorry to point anyone out here... but one day I was just talking completely fine with Jman, and we haven't been talking all too much recently, so we just talking like normal. Having fun, doing different shit together again, and then out of no where he basically calls me an idiot in some thread... I can't remember exactly what, but yea... Again, I don't mean to drop it all on Jman, just an example.
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To be honest, I don't see that I've done anything to piss anyone off. I made a fairy miniscule assumption in the thread about Don having deleted posts before I read the entire situation, because I felt it wasn't necessary... I shouldn't have done that, but that wasn't a big problem. Aside from that, I honestly don't think I have done anything to anger anyone.
And of course, tensions rise as people stay around eachother more... but it was a drastic change... out of no where, everyone's starting to flip shit in a split second. For example... sorry to point anyone out here... but one day I was just talking completely fine with Jman, and we haven't been talking all too much recently, so we just talking like normal. Having fun, doing different shit together again, and then out of no where he basically calls me an idiot in some thread... I can't remember exactly what, but yea... Again, I don't mean to drop it all on Jman, just an example.
It's not that it was a drastic rise.
It's always been prevalent.
You only just noticed it from (what appears to be) the incident with Jman.
As for the first part of the paragraph, I wasn't saying you've done anything recently. I was saying this thread was an example.
You're asking why everyones been upset, implying that you haven't been building up tension either, or that you're a part of the problem.
You've been doing the whole "this thread is derp" and making those assertions based on fragments of information for a while now. It wasn't until you did it to Don that he felt the need to retaliate.
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To be honest, I don't see that I've done anything to piss anyone off. I made a fairy miniscule assumption in the thread about Don having deleted posts before I read the entire situation, because I felt it wasn't necessary... I shouldn't have done that, but that wasn't a big problem. Aside from that, I honestly don't think I have done anything to anger anyone.
And of course, tensions rise as people stay around eachother more... but it was a drastic change... out of no where, everyone's starting to flip shit in a split second. For example... sorry to point anyone out here... but one day I was just talking completely fine with Jman, and we haven't been talking all too much recently, so we just talking like normal. Having fun, doing different shit together again, and then out of no where he basically calls me an idiot in some thread... I can't remember exactly what, but yea... Again, I don't mean to drop it all on Jman, just an example.
Pretty much everyone's been arguing about a stupid little thing about missing posts.
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What Deacon said. We haven't got that many new people lately.
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What Deacon said. We haven't got that many new people lately.
Or ones with good entertainment. It could be because our original servers are down.
(Sorry if I post too fast. Old habit in my old forum)
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(Sorry if I post too fast. Old habit in my old forum)
It's fine as long as they aren't stupid posts.
"lol" "ya." "Haha."
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What Deacon said. We haven't got that many new people lately.
Or probably it's because people can't cling onto the community long enough ever since the servers went down for a reason.
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It's not that it was a drastic rise.
It's always been prevalent.
You only just noticed it from (what appears to be) the incident with Jman.
As for the first part of the paragraph, I wasn't saying you've done anything recently. I was saying this thread was an example.
You're asking why everyones been upset, implying that you haven't been building up tension either, or that you're a part of the problem.
You've been doing the whole "this thread is derp" and making those assertions based on fragments of information for a while now. It wasn't until you did it to Don that he felt the need to retaliate.
Okay... but I'm not only talking about what happened in that thread with Don, or only with that incident with Jman. And it was a sudden change... I just started noticing this a week or so ago, people being extremely short with eachother. Even when I'm not doing anything stupid... which I admit, was my fault in Don's case, but he blew it out way too far. Which has been what's happening.
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I'm not sure if you've noticed, but I barely post nowadays, even though I usually check all and every post in the forums. And uh,
I don't know what the fuck is going on, but we're swimming in hate.
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I'm not sure if you've noticed, but I barely post nowadays, even though I usually check all and every post in the forums. And uh,
I don't know what the fuck is going on, but we're swimming in hate.
Yep ._.. So I'm hoping we can end it. I don't see why we only discuss this stuff until AFTER it everyone's flipping shit.
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Yep ._.. So I'm hoping we can end it. I don't see why we only discuss this stuff until AFTER it everyone's flipping shit.
It's because we don't notice this fully until someone posts a controversial post, then everyone just lets their hate out.
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I think you're all pretty chill. TTT can cause problems, so can discussion threads like Astropilot's, but I know he didn't intend it.
I encourage you guys to resolve problems you may have with each other in PMs.
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We're like a household, the longer you're with each other and the more you learn about each other, the easier it gets to become irritated and argue.
That's just my thoughts on all of this.
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We're like a household, the longer you're with each other and the more you learn about each other, the easier it gets to become irritated and argue.
That's just my thoughts on all of this.
To be honest, I don't see that I've done anything to piss anyone off. I made a fairy miniscule assumption in the thread about Don having deleted posts before I read the entire situation, because I felt it wasn't necessary... I shouldn't have done that, but that wasn't a big problem. Aside from that, I honestly don't think I have done anything to anger anyone.
And of course, tensions rise as people stay around eachother more... but it was a drastic change... out of no where, everyone's starting to flip shit in a split second. For example... sorry to point anyone out here... but one day I was just talking completely fine with Jman, and we haven't been talking all too much recently, so we just talking like normal. Having fun, doing different shit together again, and then out of no where he basically calls me an idiot in some thread... I can't remember exactly what, but yea... Again, I don't mean to drop it all on Jman, just an example.
That's what Sabb just said about us being irritated of each other with being together for so long
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There's this other forum I go on, and I've known those guys two years longer than I even heard of RND. Those people have known each other for even longer, and yet they're not like this.
Their forum is what gave me the idea for the Anonyboard, and it isn't even close to as hateful (or active) as our Anonyboard.
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Call me oblivious but I wasn't even aware that everyone is being how they apparently are.
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Call me oblivious but I wasn't even aware that everyone is being how they apparently are.
Mmm, it really hasn't been as bad as they're making it out to be for the past week or so tempers have started to flare more then usual but it really got out of hand today. The majority of those arguing have been here for a long while and more then likely intend to stay you've more then likely all had good times with one or another at one point which means you're capable of doing it again. My suggestion stop the crying, stop the insults, stop the bitching, and go back to secretly hating each other.
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am I too passive-aggressive or do people just naturally get pissed off at everything I say
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am I too passive-aggressive or do people just naturally get pissed off at everything I say
I think you know what the answer is.
(you're extremely passive-aggressive)
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am I too passive-aggressive or do people just naturally get pissed off at everything I say
Yeah I love you and all but sometimes your posts make me go gorilla. As I suppose mine many times do the same.
And about hate, uhng, I hate Jman so much. But I shouldn't be so angry about it. I have to be chill. Anger is only good to overcome fear.
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am I too passive-aggressive or do people just naturally get pissed off at everything I say
Personally, I prefer snarky sarcasm over direct hate.
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And about hate, uhng, I hate Jman so much. But I shouldn't be so angry about it. I have to be chill. Anger is only good to overcome fear.
Dude, what the hell is your problem? I really don't see how you can just act like you are 200% better than me. Your pejorative insults are those which you would say to a 3 year old, which I'm clearly not. You know when you say "I hate Jman so much" that I'm going to see it and it's going to cause problems, so maybe you're trying to be histrionic and start shit, I really can't tell.
Either way, I will ask you as kindly as I can to fuck off and keep your stupid comments to yourself about me. I know you hate me, and trust me, I hate you too. However, I keep it to myself and don't post "OMG I HATE FRANK SO MUCH!11!!!" in every thread I get the chance. If anyone's being randomly pissy about everything, it's you.
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And about hate, uhng, I hate Jman so much.
That was idiotic and uncalled for.
fuck off and keep your stupid comments to yourself.
That was stupid and unnecessary.
I've had enough of your
snide insinuations
disingenuous assertions
malicious implications
tabloid journalism.
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When someone does something to annoy me, I talk to them about it and try to avoid hating.
If they change it, I begin to respect them more (Jman is my example).
Well, I hope I don't come off as annoying.
:I
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Dude, what the hell is your problem? I really don't see how you can just act like you are 200% better than me. Your pejorative insults are those which you would say to a 3 year old, which I'm clearly not. You know when you say "I hate Jman so much" that I'm going to see it and it's going to cause problems, so maybe you're trying to be histrionic and start shit, I really can't tell.
Either way, I will ask you as kindly as I can to fuck off and keep your stupid comments to yourself about me. I know you hate me, and trust me, I hate you too. However, I keep it to myself and don't post "OMG I HATE FRANK SO MUCH!11!!!" in every thread I get the chance. If anyone's being randomly pissy about everything, it's you.
Jman, I think this is the problem.
Just
don't
respond.
Trust me, I like you and everything but seriously I see you pull this shit all the time and I bite my tongue. But seriously, dude, just. Stop. This.
If somebody hates you and you know or the hate is mutual, don't try to argue with them! Especially over stupid horseshit like this! It just gives them (and others) more reason to think you're immature! Just back off and take it like a bitch in heat. Don't respond to this, just read it and think.
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I didn't notice this was titled the "Jman Hate Thread" ._.. Jman's not really the main problem or anything... the threads supposed to be talking about everyone's out of the normal short temper...ness. Jman hasn't really done all that much recently... and the thread also wasn't meant for "Post Who You Hate the Most". If you hate someone, okay, go be childish elsewhere. We don't all need to know... this is just about people being so short tempered recently, like Don who I thought was my friend blatantly calling me a complete retard after I made a rather small mistake which I have admitted plenty enough that I shouldn't have. Stuff like that. NOT just continuing hate between members.
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I didn't notice this was titled the "Jman Hate Thread" ._.. Jman's not really the main problem or anything... the threads supposed to be talking about everyone's out of the normal short temper...ness. Jman hasn't really done all that much recently... and the thread also wasn't meant for "Post Who You Hate the Most". If you hate someone, okay, go be childish elsewhere. We don't all need to know... this is just about people being so short tempered recently, like Don who I thought was my friend blatantly calling me a complete retard after I made a rather small mistake which I have admitted plenty enough that I shouldn't have. Stuff like that. NOT just continuing hate between members.
We're letting our feelings out. Eventually there will be nothing left to say and the tension will lower to acceptable levels between all of us, and the members who hate each other can work on it.
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We're letting our feelings out. Eventually there will be nothing left to say and the tension will lower to acceptable levels between all of us, and the members who hate each other can work on it.
'You would think, but we practically have stupid drama here monthly.
This time, however, I legitimately don't know what's going on. If it was between just one member, then I would assume it's personal life problems of some sort, but it's several people all acting extremely snappy.
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'You would think, but we practically have stupid drama here monthly.
This time, however, I legitimately don't know what's going on. If it was between just one member, then I would assume it's personal life problems of some sort, but it's several people all acting extremely snappy.
You, in making this thread, gave us an excuse to burst the dam.
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You, in making this thread, gave us an excuse to burst the dam.
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Last time I'm saying it. I made this because I want to know what's going on with everyone, and why everyone's been so short tempered. Not to bitch further at people because you have stupid grudges against them or something. Any post off-topic ie, "omg Jman's such a faggot it's all his fault" will be removed.
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No no no Jman, you got me all wrong, and what you did is what I want to avoid.
The thing is I do hate you, but hey, I don't really know why. Must be because I'm full of teenage angst and shit, and so I flip my shit when I see you comment something I dislike.
But fuck that, I don't want to be raging here all the time. I rage at home all the time, and it ain't cool. I'm sorry for all the shit I've done towards you, if it's ever offended you. Jman, I used to <3 you, let's go back there
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Oh shit... those were tampons?
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Oh shit... those were tampons?
DAMNIT COOLZ
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Sarcasm sparked the hatred all over the forums. Also, alot of people use a huge amount of sarcasm in their posts. I've already stated this before in plenty of threads before. With the downtime of the servers, it has tightened us and we are grasping for air. When we cannot grasp for air, we then live on hatred and sarcasm.
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And this is why I don't post so often. I'm not really pleased with the temp servers and the players since there are many RDMs in TTT for an example.
That is why I like to keep myself away from these kind of discussions. Because it will only turn out bad.
I don't understand. If a person feels so much need to post that one silly comment about somebody being a totally faggot who is actually a good friend of yours, he just has to do it. Why can't you just back away? You are like screaming to your monitor as loud as you can, in the end, nobody will hear it.
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Because people keep making threads like this.