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Title: "Best person I know"
Post by: Frank on December 05, 2011, 02:59:02 PM

Okay, so today I was talking to a guy who used to be my best friend, but then he slowly became kind of a dick to me.

But we still talk in school and play soem games. The thing is, we were talking about a friend of his, who he really likes and loves, and he said she was the best person he knows...

"...after you. You're the best person I know, you never bother anyone, you don't hit people, you don't prejudge" and some other nice things.


So even though he's an asshole at times, he managed to call me the best person he knows. I actually half-hugged him(he's kinda homophobic(he knows I'm a fag(he knows I don't feel anything for him but he still gets mad))) and felt like crying of joy so much. I hate myself. A lot. I hurt myself. A lot. I'm really angry with myself and sad.

But this made me extremely happy. I think that, even though I do a lot of bad shit, I'm the best person a guy knows. And he knows a lot of people.


So yeah. I'm really happy and it was like taking Extasis that only makes you happy without the side effects.


Have you had any experiences like this?

Title: Re: "Best person I know"
Post by: Devie on December 05, 2011, 07:36:01 PM

Yes.
A friend of mine is kind of a social outcast. he doesnt have a facebook or any of that and prefers to hide in the dark. He's very alone and lonely and he told me that his birthdays consists of just staying at home watching anime and tv. I decided to change that.
I became friends with him a long time ago and played a couple of games with him.

He's cool and very very nice. He's still quite shy though. He's a very awkward person who fears public communication even if its just a simple conversation with a waitress ordering.

About a month ago it was his birthday.. He said he wasnt doing anything so I decided to take him out.
We went to the movies, we went to the amusement park and arcade and we also ate out to eat.
It was a birthday celebration for him.

At the end of the night, when we both went home, I received a text message from him.
It said "Thanks for giving me the best birthday ever!"

Shit before I could even reply, he already sent me another and this time it said
"You saved my life tonight.. Thank you"

I cried.

Title: Re: "Best person I know"
Post by: Deathie on December 05, 2011, 07:43:01 PM

Quote from: Devie ♥ on December 05, 2011, 07:36:01 PM

Shit before I could even reply, he already sent me another and this time it said
"You saved my life tonight.. Thank you"

I cried.

Reading that gave me chills.

;_;

Title: Re: "Best person I know"
Post by: Ἆxule on December 05, 2011, 07:51:10 PM

Quote from: Snivy M.D. on December 05, 2011, 07:43:01 PM

Reading that gave me chills.

;_;

Same, but very touching at the same time.

Anyways, I've been friends with this one girl since 3rd grade (currently a sophomore in high school), and we're constantly helping each other in our most desperate times of need. I can say for both of us that we're the best people we know. We've only been in one major fight, but that was in middle school and drama there is crazy sometimes. Other than that, we're always letting each other see the best in ourselves when we can't. Always giving advice as well as asking for advice. It's a really balanced relationship, and I'm glad we've been together for so long. We would always walk her dog and just talk about anything and everything, sharing out most personal secrets to each other. My only regret is that I moved and that I can't be there psychically for her, holding her after she's broken up with a loser or w/e.
She is a true friend.

Title: Re: "Best person I know"
Post by: Frank on December 05, 2011, 08:24:05 PM

Awww, your stories are so nice :3

Title: Re: "Best person I know"
Post by: Dale Feles on December 06, 2011, 01:40:06 PM

Quote from: Devie ♥ on December 05, 2011, 07:36:01 PM

Yes.
A friend of mine is kind of a social outcast. he doesnt have a facebook or any of that and prefers to hide in the dark. He's very alone and lonely and he told me that his birthdays consists of just staying at home watching anime and tv. I decided to change that.
I became friends with him a long time ago and played a couple of games with him.

He's cool and very very nice. He's still quite shy though. He's a very awkward person who fears public communication even if its just a simple conversation with a waitress ordering.

About a month ago it was his birthday.. He said he wasnt doing anything so I decided to take him out.
We went to the movies, we went to the amusement park and arcade and we also ate out to eat.
It was a birthday celebration for him.

At the end of the night, when we both went home, I received a text message from him.
It said "Thanks for giving me the best birthday ever!"

Shit before I could even reply, he already sent me another and this time it said
"You saved my life tonight.. Thank you"

I cried.

And this is why I am SURE you are NOT going to hell.

As for me, I never had similar situations like yours Frank. I mean, I'm kind of both a dick and nice person at the same time  :-[

Title: Re: "Best person I know"
Post by: Sabb on December 06, 2011, 02:11:47 PM

Quote from: .:~RND`=-$ilent on December 06, 2011, 01:40:06 PM

And this is why I am SURE you are NOT going to hell.

As for me, I never had similar situations like yours Frank. I mean, I'm kind of both a dick and nice person at the same time  :-[

She has a fountain-pissing fetish. She's going to hell.

Title: Re: "Best person I know"
Post by: ursus on December 06, 2011, 04:00:16 PM

The only time I've ever had any of my friends express genuine care for me was when they told me I was a dumbass for cutting myself.

I've talked 1 or 2 people I know out of suicide. People I don't even like that much.

Other than that, I only have 1 or 2 real friends anyway.

Title: Re: "Best person I know"
Post by: Devie on December 06, 2011, 06:28:20 PM

Quote from: .:~RND`=-$ilent on December 06, 2011, 01:40:06 PM

And this is why I am SURE you are NOT going to hell.

People say that God is supposed to be Just and Fair, so it doesn't make any sense to me by most religious definitions that a good moral person who did everything they could to help others will still go to hell if they happen to be an Atheist. At least I've been told I'm going to hell by.. pretty much everyone.

Title: Re: "Best person I know"
Post by: Ἆxule on December 06, 2011, 07:05:10 PM

Quote from: Devie ♥ on December 06, 2011, 06:28:20 PM

People say that God is supposed to be Just and Fair, so it doesn't make any sense to me by most religious definitions that a good moral person who did everything they could to help others will still go to hell if they happen to be an Atheist. At least I've been told I'm going to hell by.. pretty much everyone.

Because everyone where you live at is very religious, yeah?
I understand what you mean, but personally, I don't believe atheists go to hell just because they don't believe in God.

Title: Re: "Best person I know"
Post by: ursus on December 06, 2011, 09:53:16 PM

Quote from: Devie ♥ on December 06, 2011, 06:28:20 PM

People say that God is supposed to be Just and Fair, so it doesn't make any sense to me by most religious definitions that a good moral person who did everything they could to help others will still go to hell if they happen to be an Atheist. At least I've been told I'm going to hell by.. pretty much everyone.

Whoever told you that didn't know what they were talking about.

If you ever want to throw scripture at them to make them question their existence, I can help you there.

Title: Re: "Best person I know"
Post by: Devie on December 07, 2011, 12:52:31 PM

I'm not gonna take part of derailing this thread.
But I'm gonna keep talking about something on-topic.


It was a bit overwhelming when it happened. I did sit there and stare at the message he sent me for a good long minute and started crying.
Who knew? He showed no signs whatsoever other than being a very softspoken, sensitive quiet guy he usually is.

I couldn't reply properly to what he said. I didn't exactly KNOW what to say. I mean, what the fuck do you say to that?
"You're welcome"? no...

Title: Re: "Best person I know"
Post by: ·UηİŦ·· on December 07, 2011, 01:56:23 PM

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That happens to me a lot.

But it's slightly different.

People I've met face-to-face don't hate me.

See, I HATE PEOPLE.

Not, people, because people are okay.

But the 'people' that surround me other than my family and a FEW IRL Friends almost make me misanthropic.

And you know it's bad when, after the class being told 17 times, you're the only one with enough sense to put someone's hand AWAY so they don't solder their flesh into a brand new PCB.

Or tell someone not to Walk in front of that moving car with it's Reversing lamps on.

Or tell them not to eat that piece of paper because someone told you to.

Or why stairs have stairs and not big-ass gaps to jump off of. Those stairs have some wicked-ass sharp edges (and they're wet now), it'd be a shame if your feet landed on the edge and you slipped and planted your skull on some industrial tiles without anything to hold on to...

I can literally COUNT the seconds before it happens. I almost didn't give a fuck when it almost did happen and I pretty much saved someone's life.

Spoiler (click to show/hide)

They like, SLIPPED. The sheer inertia from the landing pretty much sent them pivoting backwards as they went forwards. And the only thing that stopped them from having a broken spine were my arms.

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Someone actually got themselves into a fight in Grade 9 (Over a game), and I was a truebro and broke it up (With some help) after school. Everyone was more or less cool the next day.

It was honestly scary though, because one guy actually had a KNIFE with him. I didn't even know until it threatened to stab the poor kid. He could have pulled it on anyone.

I'm glad I'm not in woodshop, because I would have already lost 5 fingers.

I feel like the voice of reason sometimes :\

But people love me. Or, can hardly be aggressive with me.

Like me, love me- compliment me. Even pick shit up for me when I'm not paying attention. Everyone is basically friendly with me, even strangers I've only met for the 1st time start up a conversation that they attempt to make last for more than 5 HOURS regardless of what's going on outside of my face (heyyouknowthat'scoolandallbutIdon'tevenknowyouandyou'remakingEYEcontactandaskingforhighfives :| ).

It's funny because otherwise I'll type/write for hours on end- I guess being chatted down so much that I don't even have free will kind of ran into my system.

God.

It's nice, but it's short lived when someone does something that makes me want to Jam a pen into a socket with my index finger.

And yet I still hold the door for someone. I don't know, I guess I'm just a nice person by heart.

It only feels like E when I actually help out people I like/are okay people/sensibleenough. Or, er, not blank.

Not blank is good.