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Roommate Problems [serious discussion]
Monorail Cat:
--- Quote from: ○ Marie ○ on February 13, 2015, 08:24:53 PM ---Obviously I can't just sit here and tell you to make people salty, but at the same time if you've approached him in the past about it, it wouldn't really make you seem like someone who can't handle shit; it's more like someone who won't tolerate bullshit. There's a difference. The last confrontation is probably a good idea, but if he continues doing it, whether he gets mad or not, I'd just straight up report him. Don't let people take advantage of your tolerance/patience and put your foot down.
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You make a good point. Like I said, I'll confront and then report if he does it again, but thanks for that point. I just hate doing anything that hurts my IRL reputation.
Xrain:
It seems like you are in dorms at the moment? Honestly if it were me and I felt the same way as you I'd just go to the residence office and ask to get a new room. At least at my school it wasn't really a big deal to get a different room if you were having disagreements with your roomate. The residence office will sometimes be a bit reluctant to want to move you, you just need to be persistent enough that it is easier to move you than for them to keep having to deal with you.
I realize that moving isn't probably the first chose for you, as moving is a pretty big pain in the ass. But to me things like this aren't really worth my time. You can usually get a pretty good feeling if someone would be willing to work with you on things, or if they are going to dig their heels in. If this was an off campus apartment I'd put up a bigger fight for it and work to resolve it more, but since it's just a dorm room I don't really think it's that big of deal to switch rooms.
Do you have any friends who's roommate moved out? It is usually easiest if you have a specific room you want to move to.
Alternatively you can just spread a rumor that he has the clap around campus.
Monorail Cat:
--- Quote from: Xrain on February 13, 2015, 11:06:52 PM ---Spoiler (click to show/hide)It seems like you are in dorms at the moment? Honestly if it were me and I felt the same way as you I'd just go to the residence office and ask to get a new room. At least at my school it wasn't really a big deal to get a different room if you were having disagreements with your roomate. The residence office will sometimes be a bit reluctant to want to move you, you just need to be persistent enough that it is easier to move you than for them to keep having to deal with you.
I realize that moving isn't probably the first chose for you, as moving is a pretty big pain in the ass. But to me things like this aren't really worth my time. You can usually get a pretty good feeling if someone would be willing to work with you on things, or if they are going to dig their heels in. If this was an off campus apartment I'd put up a bigger fight for it and work to resolve it more, but since it's just a dorm room I don't really think it's that big of deal to switch rooms.
Do you have any friends who's roommate moved out? It is usually easiest if you have a specific room you want to move to.
Alternatively you can just spread a rumor that he has the clap around campus.
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Hah, nah. I'm pretty sure I'll be able to work it out with him one way or another. It's a very small campus, so moving would be really difficult.
Xrain:
--- Quote from: Monorail Cat on February 13, 2015, 11:13:55 PM --- It's a very small campus....
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That makes the STD rumor easier to achieve O:-)
Prox:
I think it is quite possible that he's just pretending to be a friend with you. Judging by what you've said about him, he seems to be pretty careless and selfish. If he's able to use girls like that then what makes you think that he can't be doing the same with you? After all, he already lied to you about this issue and it looks like there's going to be no sign of improvement. Obviously I could be wrong but you should think about it.
If all of this bother you that much then switching rooms may be the only thing you can do to solve the issue. Another thing that comes in mind is that if some girl he fucks has a boyfriend you could tell him about it. Perhaps your roommate would change after getting beat up. It also makes me wonder what kind of girls go to your college that they fall for him like that.
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