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Title: why being nice has negative consciousnesses
Post by: JIGSAW on October 03, 2011, 03:25:58 PM
I was nice to this special ed kid now he won't leave me alone its annoying and don't say just be honest with him he's on suicidal watch and if I say the wrong thing it could end with death on my hands ( I'M NOT LYING SEE HOW HARD MY LIFE IS) what should I do :idk:
Title: Re: why being nice has negative consciousnesses
Post by: aerobro on October 03, 2011, 03:44:30 PM
Never been in that situation before but I am friends with a special ed kid but all I can say is just be nice to him he needs the moral support  ;)
Title: Re: why being nice has negative consciousnesses
Post by: Alkaline on October 03, 2011, 04:22:22 PM
keep yourself from becoming frustrated

always remind yourself that you are helping him out
Title: Re: why being nice has negative consciousnesses
Post by: cogsandspigots on October 03, 2011, 04:40:27 PM
>consciousnesses
Ok, what?
Title: Re: why being nice has negative consciousnesses
Post by: metalbeersolid on October 03, 2011, 04:56:14 PM
what a story mark (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FhXz60f0HLU#)
Title: Re: why being nice has negative consciousnesses
Post by: Dale Feles on October 03, 2011, 06:20:39 PM
You should KINDLY ask him to give you a little time alone. Everyone needs to relax once in a while and he should understand.
Title: Re: why being nice has negative consciousnesses
Post by: Deathie on October 03, 2011, 11:23:09 PM
what a story mark (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FhXz60f0HLU#)

Yeah, you can say that again.
Title: Re: why being nice has negative consciousnesses
Post by: This Toast on October 04, 2011, 01:50:35 AM
He acts like he haven't had a friend before and your like the first?
>He feels cool if he's with you
>Be gentle
Title: Re: why being nice has negative consciousnesses
Post by: Xrain on October 04, 2011, 03:10:27 AM
Special Education students are awesome man! honestly, I would stay his friend, I think it's really cool that you took the time to make friends with a person like that.

If he really is preventing you from doing anything else and the situation is that delicate, just go talk with the school worker that is working with him. Tell them what is going on and that you still want to be friends with him but you also need some time to do stuff for yourself. I'm sure they will work with you to figure out something that works.

All the kids I've ever met with down syndrome, Autism or the like have been pretty awesome people.


Your life really doesn't look that hard to me, you can articulate well, you can communicate effectively with others.

I know it seems embarrassing for him to come up and say HI to you or whatever else is going on. I'm sure a few people giggle at you or whatever. But you know what, they are just children and rather superficial.


I have a lot of respect for people willing to go the extra mile in situations like this, even if it is inconvenient.

Say hello to him when you see him, maybe even include him in some of the game you do. It might seem like you will lose some cool points at this stage of your life. But trust me, it will pay off a hundred fold when you see people will have a lot of respect for you. And the only people who give you a hard time are just fucking ass holes.
Title: Re: why being nice has negative consciousnesses
Post by: Supertoaster on October 04, 2011, 02:50:05 PM
or did you just make this thread so you can brag about how you helped a special ed kid
Title: Re: why being nice has negative consciousnesses
Post by: blαh2355 on October 04, 2011, 02:51:43 PM
or did you just make this thread so you can brag about how you helped a special ed kid

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why being nice has negative consciousnesses
Title: Re: why being nice has negative consciousnesses
Post by: JIGSAW on October 04, 2011, 04:01:45 PM
supertoster your an awful person for saying that you would accuse me for bragging about a serous problem and I serously don't have the time to deal with reply's like that what I'm trying to say is that's a new low even for you :thumbsdown:
Title: Re: why being nice has negative consciousnesses
Post by: metalbeersolid on October 04, 2011, 04:04:46 PM
supertoster your an awful person for saying that you would accuse me for bragging about a serous problem and I serously don't have the time to deal with reply's like that what I'm trying to say is that's a new low even for you :thumbsdown:

>being followed by a spec. ed is worse than actually being spec. ed
>you have to pay attention to him
Title: Re: why being nice has negative consciousnesses
Post by: JIGSAW on October 04, 2011, 04:10:18 PM
OK let me explain my situation I learned a lot about him today that he sometimes cuts himself I'm trying to help him out and believe me he's told me stories that kids like him shouldn't be saying please don't make me feel worse then I already am (I don't have a problem with special ed kids I just don't like what they do be hide peoples backs) like I said only trying to change his life around
Title: Re: why being nice has negative consciousnesses
Post by: Sabb on October 04, 2011, 04:18:54 PM
OK let me explain my situation I learned a lot about him today that he sometimes cuts himself I'm trying to help him out and believe me he's told me stories that kids like him shouldn't be saying please don't make me feel worse then I already am (I don't have a problem with special ed kids I just don't like what they do be hide peoples backs) like I said only trying to change his life around
>do behind peoples' backs
>special ed must mean "we all do the same stuff whether you like it or not"
Title: Re: why being nice has negative consciousnesses
Post by: JIGSAW on October 04, 2011, 04:36:32 PM
In his history he sells drugs when he was raised only by his mother because his father drink-ed and left them at the age of 8 and he would use to steal from stores but that all stopped when he was caught and was sent to therapy and guidance now people see him as a freak I saw something different in him that's how this whole thing began believe me this is true and heart breaking for everyone like I said turning his life around O:-)
Title: Re: why being nice has negative consciousnesses
Post by: DrOctagonnapus on October 04, 2011, 04:53:58 PM
He must have a handler. Someone that takes care of him and keeps watch. Simply tell the handler what is going on. That he is becoming a nuisance to you in some aspects but you dont want to hurt his feelings or have blood on your hands
Title: Re: why being nice has negative consciousnesses
Post by: JIGSAW on October 05, 2011, 01:25:09 PM
good news today I got him to stop thinking negative thoughts and got him to stop cutting him self tomorrow I'm going to get him friends. 
Title: Re: why being nice has negative consciousnesses
Post by: Devie on October 05, 2011, 01:39:28 PM
WELLP...

This makes me feel like shit.
Back in high school I was nice to a couple of special ed kids.


WELL YEAH SO ONE DAY ONE OF THEM GRABBED MY BOOBS
AND SOME OTHER TIME ANOTHER KID GRABBED MY ASS..
EVERYTIME THEY SAW ME THEY JUST INSIST ON TOUCHING ME IN APPROPRIATELY EVEN IF ITS JUST A HUG. YOU WILL BE ABLE TO TELL THAT THEIR HUGS AREN'T NORMAL HUGS, BUT HUGS THAT WANT MORE.
HHHHHHHHHHHHHHHNNNNNNNNNNNNNGGGGGGGGH....
Title: Re: why being nice has negative consciousnesses
Post by: blαh2355 on October 05, 2011, 02:07:14 PM
WELLP...

This makes me feel like shit.
Back in high school I was nice to a couple of special ed kids.


WELL YEAH SO ONE DAY ONE OF THEM GRABBED MY BOOBS
AND SOME OTHER TIME ANOTHER KID GRABBED MY ASS..
EVERYTIME THEY SAW ME THEY JUST INSIST ON TOUCHING ME IN APPROPRIATELY EVEN IF ITS JUST A HUG. YOU WILL BE ABLE TO TELL THAT THEIR HUGS AREN'T NORMAL HUGS, BUT HUGS THAT WANT MORE.
HHHHHHHHHHHHHHHNNNNNNNNNNNNNGGGGGGGGH....
WTFFFFFFF????????
Title: Re: why being nice has negative consciousnesses
Post by: Sabb on October 05, 2011, 02:13:12 PM
WTFFFFFFF????????
She liked it.
Title: Re: why being nice has negative consciousnesses
Post by: Dale Feles on October 05, 2011, 02:28:17 PM
I know some girls, that if you just slightly bump into them, they yell "OMG DONT TOUCH MEEE!!!"
Title: Re: why being nice has negative consciousnesses
Post by: Supertoaster on October 05, 2011, 03:11:07 PM
I know some girls, that if you just slightly bump into them, they yell "OMG DONT TOUCH MEEE!!!"
i always end up 'accidentally' touching peoples butts
Title: Re: why being nice has negative consciousnesses
Post by: Hotgreensoldier on October 05, 2011, 03:30:29 PM
i always end up 'accidentally' touching peoples butts

And not just girls' butts  :trollface:
Title: Re: why being nice has negative consciousnesses
Post by: JIGSAW on October 05, 2011, 03:43:12 PM
And the sexually inappropriate comments BEGIN  :trollface:
Title: Re: why being nice has negative consciousnesses
Post by: JIGSAW on October 05, 2011, 03:46:39 PM
and Devie by the way you have it lucky with ed kids because I also forgot to mention that he told me today that you wanna help me hold a heist and that got me thinking WTF well its a good thing I got him Off that topic for good with some JIGSAW MAGIC  O:-)
Title: Re: why being nice has negative consciousnesses
Post by: Devie on October 05, 2011, 05:50:01 PM
I just stayed away.
They do it very.. obviously, and by this I mean extending their hands and cupping their palms and approaching my tits hoping they could grope it.

and the ass grabbing wasnt subtle either.
two hands and a very firm squeeze ....?


I doubt thats
"slightly touching and me just overreacting and saying OMG NO DONT TOUCH ME"

No, I'm not ALL GIRLS.
My name is Devie and I've been groped by Special Ed kids.
Title: Re: why being nice has negative consciousnesses
Post by: Sabb on October 05, 2011, 05:51:49 PM
My name is Devie and I've been groped by Special Ed kids.
LOL
Welcome Devie.
/group counseling
Title: Re: why being nice has negative consciousnesses
Post by: JIGSAW on October 06, 2011, 02:10:11 PM
Its ok devie I've got your back and I'm pating my hand on your shoulder just let it all out :)
Title: Re: why being nice has negative consciousnesses
Post by: JIGSAW on October 06, 2011, 02:51:10 PM
now that most of the people are in discussion today I visited his house and believe me there was some pretty disturbing shit there like a torn up bart simpson life size doll with red maker residua and a kitchen knife stabbed in the doll guessing the markers were representing blood and writing on the wall but I helped him clean up his act and get all negative things out of that room with the help of JIGSAW MAGIC O:-)
Title: Re: why being nice has negative consciousnesses
Post by: Deathie on October 06, 2011, 09:30:00 PM
I helped him clean up his act and get all negative things out of that room with the help of JIGSAW MAGIC O:-)

No.
Title: Re: why being nice has negative consciousnesses
Post by: Supertoaster on October 06, 2011, 10:42:43 PM
No.
Title: Re: why being nice has negative consciousnesses
Post by: JIGSAW on October 07, 2011, 12:22:19 PM
no what you don't believe that I've helped him I mean its pretty easy if you take you say that's not whats friends do so I kind of used peer pressure in a good way
Title: Re: why being nice has negative consciousnesses
Post by: aerobro on October 07, 2011, 12:43:31 PM
Jigsaw magic....... jigsaw kills people  ???
Title: Re: why being nice has negative consciousnesses
Post by: JIGSAW on October 07, 2011, 01:33:00 PM
you haven't seen my movies haven't you