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Title: To Any Fellow Christians.
Post by: Cheesicle on September 11, 2010, 10:06:33 AM
If you're not Christian, please stay out, or at least don't troll.

Basically my family has been having some serious issues. I hate my mom, my mom hates my dad, my brother hates both my mom and dad. We've been fighting regularly, and as I'm typing this topic right now, my mom is screaming at someone through the telephone.
I've been really depressed lately, and I really can't find the motivation to continue living. If some of you guys could pray for me and my family, it'd be much appreciated.

Thanks.
Title: Re: To Any Fellow Christians.
Post by: Кrаsher on September 11, 2010, 10:21:19 AM
Thought I am not one for religion.

I hope you're family will someday sort it all out and talk about it. As I am almost 95% sure they will. Anger should only last for a week or two, then it is just a grudge. But they can still talk it over and get better.

:)
Title: Re: To Any Fellow Christians.
Post by: Mr. Franklin on September 11, 2010, 10:35:05 AM
It is best to thank your parents for you even existing, hate is just another word for having no excuse, so the best thing to do is love your mom and dad with all you're heart. That's what you should do.
Title: Re: To Any Fellow Christians.
Post by: Devie on September 11, 2010, 10:57:34 AM
Ah,.. I'm sorry..

Just keep your head up. Try to get out of the house, if there is an empty room, lock yourself in it. Even if its a bathroom.
Think positively about the situation. And... this works so well with the person I know who has an abusive parent;
bury yourself in playing video games.
Title: Re: To Any Fellow Christians.
Post by: Cake Faice on September 11, 2010, 10:59:41 AM
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Title: Re: To Any Fellow Christians.
Post by: Rocket50 on September 11, 2010, 12:01:29 PM
Sorry Cheese, im not a praying man. But, best of luck that everything clears up for you.
Title: Re: To Any Fellow Christians.
Post by: Cheesicle on September 11, 2010, 05:27:34 PM
Ah,.. I'm sorry..

Just keep your head up. Try to get out of the house, if there is an empty room, lock yourself in it. Even if its a bathroom.
Think positively about the situation. And... this works so well with the person I know who has an abusive parent;
bury yourself in playing video games.

Ehhh see that's the problem. I'm hating my mom right now cuz in three years I've already moved 3 times. The reason? Oh cuz she didn't like the place she was living in... So right now I've got 0 friends. No point in going out. + When I lock myself in a room my parents will force me to open it, and I've tried thinking positive and praying and thanking God for all of this even though I wish I was someone else right now... And no way my Asian parents are going to let me spend my day playing games. :\ Thanks though.

Thought I am not one for religion.

I hope you're family will someday sort it all out and talk about it. As I am almost 95% sure they will. Anger should only last for a week or two, then it is just a grudge. But they can still talk it over and get better.

:)

This has been going on since last year. It's reached its peak recently :(

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It is best to thank your parents for you even existing, hate is just another word for having no excuse, so the best thing to do is love your mom and dad with all you're heart. That's what you should do.

What if I really wish I didn't exist? D:

Thanks guys, Happy to know some people care :)
Title: Re: To Any Fellow Christians.
Post by: Peetah on September 11, 2010, 06:01:10 PM
From my experience.
Man.
Just leave your parents and go to a better place.
Like Canada or something.
Title: Re: To Any Fellow Christians.
Post by: Sabb on September 11, 2010, 06:01:42 PM
From my experience.
Man.
Just leave your parents and go to a better place.
Like Canada or something.
Title: Re: To Any Fellow Christians.
Post by: Cheesicle on September 11, 2010, 06:03:30 PM
From my experience.
Man.
Just leave your parents and go to a better place.
Like Canada or something.

Dude I'm 15? I wish I was at fucking LA right now. I was SO happy there. BUT NOOOO My mom decided "Shit I'm gonna fuck everything up and move to fucking CHINA." FUCK.
Title: Re: To Any Fellow Christians.
Post by: Don on September 11, 2010, 06:07:14 PM
He's going to have a hard time going from China to Canada on his own ...

Anyway, a friend of mine had similar problems.
She tried to kill herself, yet failed at it, and after all, she somehow managed to move together with one of her friends.
I don't know what happened to her though, haven't heard from her ever since.
Nonetheless, if you go to a school or something, try to find good people to spend your time with. I know it's generic and blah, but it's pretty much the best thing you could do. Or, if you can't manage to find something, just take some minutes/hours to relax - Lay in a grass, don't think about anything, just enjoy your little time for yourself (which does not include fapping). Honestly, it helped me a lot when I had loads of problems. Point being, just sit somewhere, turn your mind off, and let yourself go for several hours.

I'm not Christian, so I can't help you with anything else but bad advice.
Title: Re: To Any Fellow Christians.
Post by: Cheesicle on September 11, 2010, 06:09:07 PM
He's going to have a hard time going from China to Canada on his own ...

Anyway, a friend of mine had similar problems.
She tried to kill herself, yet failed at it, and after all, she somehow managed to move together with one of her friends.
I don't know what happened to her though, haven't heard from her ever since.
Nonetheless, if you go to a school or something, try to find good people to spend your time with. I know it's generic and blah, but it's pretty much the best thing you could do. Or, if you can't manage to find something, just take some minutes/hours to relax - Lay in a grass, don't think about anything, just enjoy your little time for yourself (which does not include fapping). Honestly, it helped me a lot when I had loads of problems. Point being, just sit somewhere, turn your mind off, and let yourself go for several hours.

I'm not Christian, so I can't help you with anything else but bad advice.

I would love to just sit around and think about shit but every fucking day I have damn mountain loads of fucking homework. FUCK China damnit. Hate being fucking Asian!
Title: Re: To Any Fellow Christians.
Post by: Hitman on September 11, 2010, 06:09:55 PM
Hmmm...
Try to talk to your parents about it, maybe they would understand and eventually go back to where you used to live.

BTW this is just a suggestion, it worked with my parents when I did something they dont like.
Title: Re: To Any Fellow Christians.
Post by: Peetah on September 11, 2010, 06:12:05 PM
In reality.
U seriously have not much power over this.
But then again. Living this way is even worse.

1. Dont do anything stupid. (Like me)
2. U didnt write that u hated your dad.
3. Since your dad is your only option plan a scheme and escape to Canada with him.
Title: Re: To Any Fellow Christians.
Post by: Cheesicle on September 11, 2010, 06:12:57 PM
Hmmm...
Try to talk to your parents about it, maybe they would understand and eventually go back to where you used to live.

BTW this is just a suggestion, it worked with my parents when I did something bad.

Nope. My selfish ass mom only cares for how happy she is. If she's not happy in LA, then the chances of going back there is 0%.

In reality.
U seriously have not much power over this.
But then again. Living this way is even worse.

1. Dont do anything stupid. (Like me)
2. U didnt write that u hated your dad.
3. Since your dad is your only option plan a scheme and escape to Canada with him.

Then again living with my Dad is a pain in the ass. He seriously does not like seeing me having fun. Whenever I'm having fun playing games or hanging out with friends on the weekends he'll say "OH WELL IT'S TIME FOR YOU TO STUDY. YOU MUST STUDY 2 HOURS FOR EACH CLASS. THEREFORE YOU MUST STUDY A TOTAL OF 16 HOURS IN YOUR WEEKEND." Then after taking off meals, shower, the gym, and everything else in the weekend, I have around 1 hour of free time.
Title: Re: To Any Fellow Christians.
Post by: fenkeN on September 12, 2010, 04:10:37 AM
Damn, I know I am not Christian but I just give you best wishes to your family.
I feel really sorry for you.
Man that sucks to have a Dad and Mum like that.
Title: Re: To Any Fellow Christians.
Post by: Cheesicle on September 12, 2010, 04:42:09 AM
Damn, I know I am not Christian but I just give you best wishes to your family.
I feel really sorry for you.
Man that sucks to have a Dad and Mum like that.


Thanks man,

BTW I love your sig <3
Title: Re: To Any Fellow Christians.
Post by: Peetah on September 12, 2010, 10:39:27 AM
Its a lose lose. What can u do...  :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(