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Title: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: Seb on January 05, 2011, 07:16:07 PM
I've seen a crazy amount of people lately that just seem to have gotten every member of this community at their worst (very rarely do I genuinely dislike somebody from the internet, it is not part of my mortal code to hate anonymously), ranging from newbies to people that have been in this community for a while. So, with that in mind, I present this guide on...

How to be un-hated!

Take it from me, I was hated as well (I'm looking at you, former hater Don).





What did I do wrong?

Well, either of these things could've gotten you hated against...

1. Raging hard on forums
2. Resorting to ad hominum (insulting the arguer instead of countering the argument) counterarguments
3. Bumping old threads
4. Something as little as having a nonpunctuated, capitalized name with numbers and punctuation marks strikes people as annoying
5. Imperfect grammar
6. Immature/disgusting/stupid/random replies
7. Just plain being an asshat



STEP 1: DON'T RESPOND TO IT

This might be hard at first, but just don't respond. Don't make any butthurt threads, don't comment on when people bring up your mistake, and don't bring it up yourself (I'm looking at YOU, Frank). Once you are done with this (or WHILE) you are doing this step [implying this step ends]), you are ready for the NEXT step...



STEP 2: GO ON AS USUAL

Respond to threads as though nothing was wrong, if not try to sound as neutral as possible. Hell, even try contributing by starting successful threads. This works hand in hand with step 1. There's not really much to explain with this thread.



STEP 3: SHOW SOME DAMN HUMILITY / KINDNESS / ENGLISH

Yeah, this is the internet, nobody knows who you really are, you can say whatever you want without consequence, blah, blah, blah. If for some reason you've decided you want to stick with this community, then show some ass-kissing. Fight fire with rainbows and hearts and smiley faces and unicorns (just don't overdo it).

Oh, also, grammar. Spaces after periods and commas, use the ENTER button when typing a lot, spell correctly, punctuate, etc.  Proper nouns are capitalized, always space after a period/question mark/exclamation mark, and know the difference between you/you're/your.



STEP 4: JOKE AROUND

Once you're sure people respect you enough, start to joke like the old   times before you were hated (or the older members who you probably look up to).



STEP 5: Good, you've gotten this far. DON'T STOP

If you've managed to do it for this long, why stop?




\AND THAT'S ALL FOR THIS MEDIOCRE GUIDE ON HOW TO GET YOUR GROOVE BACK
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: bipolardiz on January 05, 2011, 07:20:03 PM
 :thumbsup: :thumbsup: But the best method is still the proventative method in which you try not to anger ppl. Angering ppl isnt worth it over the internet. It is less satisfying.

Well..... Thanks for the guide!
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: Deathie on January 05, 2011, 07:23:04 PM
Quote from: bipolardiz on January 05, 2011, 07:20:03 PM
But the best method is still the proventative method in which you try not to anger ppl.

Some people do it unintentionally.

> Spamming
> Double Posting
> Making ignorant comments
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: Foogals on January 05, 2011, 07:27:01 PM
Well done seb, nice guide. Never knew you were hated at one point.  ??? Still +1 for awesome. :thumbsup:
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: Jman on January 05, 2011, 08:04:52 PM
Bad memories when I was hated lolol (don)
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: Peetah on January 05, 2011, 08:21:35 PM
Best fucking guide on Rnd.
You get Rnd cross.  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: Pryvisee on January 05, 2011, 09:57:40 PM
Oh wow. Good job on this. Lol totally right on all the steps. I would :thumbsup: but fkin smf4iphone dun allow..
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: Cheesicle on January 05, 2011, 11:21:50 PM
Quote from: Pryvisee on January 05, 2011, 09:57:40 PM
Oh wow. Good job on this. Lol totally right on all the steps. I would :thumbsup: but fkin smf4iphone dun allow..

Lmao

I don't know who hates me ???

If you have ever hated my at one point of your life please put  :'( Because most likely you were butthurt
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: Boardtech on January 06, 2011, 12:33:21 AM
Quote from: Death M.D. on January 05, 2011, 07:23:04 PM
Some people do it unintentionally.

> Spamming
> Double Posting
> Making ignorant comments

< Spamming
< Double Posting
< Making ignorant comments
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: Hitman on January 06, 2011, 01:06:22 AM
Quote from: jman15234 on January 05, 2011, 08:04:52 PM
Bad memories when I was hated lolol (don)
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: [Valor]iPounce on January 06, 2011, 01:08:49 AM
They be hattin, I don't need your opinion.
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: Don on January 06, 2011, 03:00:02 AM
Quote from: Seb on January 05, 2011, 07:16:07 PM
Take it from me, I was hated as well (I'm looking at you, former hater Don).
Quote from: jman15234 on January 05, 2011, 08:04:52 PM
Bad memories when I was hated lolol (don)
LOL I TROL U
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: Cheesicle on January 06, 2011, 04:27:47 AM
Quote from: DoeniDon on January 06, 2011, 03:00:02 AM
LOL I TROL U

Don you used to hate everyone, right? :p
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: Frank on January 06, 2011, 05:32:26 AM
I can live with the hatred.



To certain point, of course.
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: PhysicX M.D. on January 06, 2011, 07:08:20 AM
Good guide seb.
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: Seb on January 06, 2011, 08:30:48 AM
Quote from: Frank on January 06, 2011, 05:32:26 AM
I can live with the hatred.



To certain point, of course.

Frank, please, this genuinely hurts. I made this thread with you in mind. (no homo)
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: Cable on January 06, 2011, 01:25:01 PM
I cant really recall a time where a specific person active on the forum hated me. I have gotten bad vibes from some people... But haven't we all?
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: Shawn on January 06, 2011, 01:29:09 PM
TLDR

Or you can do what i do and not give fuck what others think... expressly over the internet...
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: Monttumopo on January 09, 2011, 04:35:09 AM
Pzzt wanna hear whats easier click-------->
Spoiler (click to show/hide)
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: Sabb on January 09, 2011, 09:25:21 AM
Quote from: Monttumopo on January 09, 2011, 04:35:09 AM
Pzzt wanna hear whats easier click-------->
Spoiler (click to show/hide)
Wtf?
Who the fuck?
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: memo3300 on January 09, 2011, 09:35:33 AM
Quote from: Monttumopo on January 09, 2011, 04:35:09 AM
Pzzt wanna hear whats easier click-------->
Spoiler (click to show/hide)

                                 (http://captionsearch.com/pix/pijobf4e8h.jpg)
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: blαh2355 on January 10, 2011, 07:57:56 PM
Quote from: Monttumopo on January 09, 2011, 04:35:09 AM
Pzzt wanna hear whats easier click-------->
Spoiler (click to show/hide)
uhhhh  :nu: :gtfo: derp and fix'd so it won't be eyesore

ONTOPIC: well i guess those are some reasonable steps to do but would probably take a while :'( and if our good friend here "Monttumopo" can show us how it's done, maybe we might know how to do it more effiecient ;)
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: Cheesicle on January 10, 2011, 09:17:15 PM
Quote from: memo3300 on January 09, 2011, 09:35:33 AM
                                 (http://captionsearch.com/pix/pijobf4e8h.jpg)
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: Xrain on January 11, 2011, 12:42:28 AM
Monatubo or w/e his name is, is just trying to give us a good exsample of how NOT to do it.

I'd also recommend:

- Not violating forum rules
- Use the Golden Rule (Don't do to other what you wouldn't want done to yourself)
- If in doubt, don't post. If you think that your post might be mis-interpreted just dont post. Think about it, then post the next day when you are more sure about it.

aka:
Spoiler (click to show/hide)


Happy Posting!  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: morfin on January 11, 2011, 01:36:44 PM
Just don't care about haters.
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: horia.strugariu on April 15, 2011, 02:18:50 PM
Good thread,now i need to apply it.
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: Rocket50 on April 15, 2011, 03:17:31 PM
Necrobump... Why?
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: Don on April 15, 2011, 03:56:36 PM
Quote from: rocket50 on April 15, 2011, 03:17:31 PM
Necrobump... Why?
Wasn't his fault, Seb linked him here.
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: Xrain on April 15, 2011, 04:31:21 PM
Quote from: rocket50 on April 15, 2011, 03:17:31 PM
Necrobump... Why?


>:(

There is nothing wrong with bringing back old posts, so long as they contribute more than. "OMG LOL"

Besides January is hardly Necro, Perhaps January of 2009, then I will agree with you.
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: Dale Feles on April 15, 2011, 05:29:03 PM
Quote from: Monttumopo on January 09, 2011, 04:35:09 AM
Pzzt wanna hear whats easier click-------->
Spoiler (click to show/hide)

I thought you left this community FFS......  :gtfo:

Ontopic: I was hated by a couple of people on this forum (maybe Frank since I didin't know he hated the word F**) and a couple of other people. But everything slowy started getting back to normal, and I wasen't ''that new newbie to the forums'' anymore.
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: Xrain on April 15, 2011, 05:34:57 PM
Quote from: .:~RND`=-$ilent on April 15, 2011, 05:29:03 PM
I thought you left this community FFS......  :gtfo:

Ontopic: I was hated by a couple of people on this forum (maybe Frank since I didin't know he hated the word F**) and a couple of other people. But everything slowy started getting back to normal, and I wasen't ''that new newbie to the forums'' anymore.

He did, look at the post date.
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: Foofoojack on April 15, 2011, 05:43:39 PM
Quote from: .:~RND`=-$ilent on April 15, 2011, 05:29:03 PM
I thought you left this community FFS......  :gtfo:

Ontopic: I was hated by a couple of people on this forum (maybe Frank since I didin't know he hated the word F**) and a couple of other people. But everything slowy started getting back to normal, and I wasen't ''that new newbie to the forums'' anymore.

Yet you cannot spell "wasn't" correctly.
:)
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: Dale Feles on April 15, 2011, 06:17:06 PM
Quote from: Xrain on April 15, 2011, 05:34:57 PM
He did, look at the post date.

No, it's that I've seen him on our servers playing..... how did he get reg ._.
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: Cheesicle on April 15, 2011, 07:25:12 PM
Quote from: .:~RND`=-$ilent on April 15, 2011, 06:17:06 PM
No, it's that I've seen him on our servers playing..... how did he get reg ._.

WHAT THE FUCK

HE HAS REG?
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: cogsandspigots on April 15, 2011, 07:42:24 PM
Quote from: Cheesicle on April 15, 2011, 07:25:12 PM
WHAT THE FUCK

HE HAS REG?



A Scene From Troll 2 (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HyophYBP_w4#)
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: Sabb on April 15, 2011, 09:11:32 PM
Quote from: Cheesicle on April 15, 2011, 07:25:12 PM
WHAT THE FUCK

HE HAS REG?
Reg = respected with less power if you catch my point.
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: Cheesicle on April 15, 2011, 11:46:48 PM
Quote from: SabbathFreak on April 15, 2011, 09:11:32 PM
Reg = respected with less power if you catch my point.

He shouldn't even have that

I can see him voting to not kick minges

He should be

Guest

Even better

Jbanned

Hell just banned
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: Don on April 16, 2011, 12:35:02 AM
Quote from: Cheesicle on April 15, 2011, 07:25:12 PM
WHAT THE FUCK

HE HAS REG?
Reg is pretty much the same as being Guest to be honest ... Unless the person plays wire.
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: Seb on April 20, 2011, 07:19:01 PM
Updated OP.
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: memo3300 on April 20, 2011, 07:42:53 PM
I remember this guy being hated just for saying: you should name your snake teeny.

._.

Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: Sabb on April 21, 2011, 07:40:47 AM
Quote from: Cheesicle on April 15, 2011, 11:46:48 PM
He shouldn't even have that

I can see him voting to not kick minges

He should be

Guest

Even better

Jbanned

Hell just banned
Yea I know I agree.
I was just saying that it's as easy to get as respected was pretty much.
Just post an application and 90% are approved. Only way to be disapproved is if you reary dun goof'd and people don't like you lol.
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: ursus on May 27, 2011, 04:29:18 PM
This is irrelevant, but you spelled Ad hominem wrong.

(http://img190.imageshack.us/img190/4324/fallacies.jpg)
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: noisymanray on June 15, 2011, 08:47:43 AM
I like this guide Seb.  I'm hatted because I said this when the ranks changed, "Gamefreak do you got proof, nope."  Hopes this works.
-Noisymanray
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: ursus on June 15, 2011, 01:40:00 PM
Quote from: noisymanray on June 15, 2011, 08:47:43 AM
I like this guide Seb.  I'm hatted because I said this when the ranks changed, "Gamefreak do you got proof, nope."  Hopes this works.
-Noisymanray

...What?
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: Sabb on June 15, 2011, 02:01:08 PM
Quote from: hello my name is gamefreak on June 15, 2011, 01:40:00 PM
...What?
I don't even know.
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: ursus on June 15, 2011, 03:17:58 PM
Quote from: Sabb on June 15, 2011, 02:01:08 PM
I don't even know.

I mean

If someone is hatted

I of all people would have proof.
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: blαh2355 on June 15, 2011, 03:19:36 PM
Quote from: hello my name is gamefreak on June 15, 2011, 03:17:58 PM
I mean

If someone is hatted

I of all people would have proof.
Spoiler (click to show/hide)
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: Sabb on June 15, 2011, 04:47:02 PM
<insert "hats, hats everywhere" picture here>
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: noisymanray on June 15, 2011, 04:59:30 PM
Quote from: hello my name is gamefreak on June 15, 2011, 03:17:58 PM
I mean

If someone is hatted

I of all people would have proof.

I knew that you have all proof gamefreak.  You remember what i was like back then.  I'm not like my respectard ways anymore.
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: Cryptokid on June 19, 2011, 01:34:56 PM
Good guide seb, I agree with the points in here. Hopefully, I'll never have to use it :D
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: Castle on July 24, 2011, 01:25:06 AM
Hope it work's  :(


Sorry for bump tough.
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: » Magic « on July 24, 2011, 06:26:13 AM
*works
Title: Re: So suddenly everybody hates you, wat do?
Post by: Cheesicle on July 24, 2011, 10:30:38 AM
Quote from: DetectiveHoffman on July 24, 2011, 01:25:06 AM
Hope it work's  :(


Sorry for bump tough.

You're trying a little too hard.