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Title: How do you all deal with non-stop problems?
Post by: ○ Μαρία ○ on December 19, 2012, 09:23:01 AM
I'm sure we all have those moments in life where it seems like its just one shitty thing after another shitty thing happening, and you just can't seem to find a solution for your problems, and the next one always makes the last one seem x10 worse. So the best thing is just coping with it even though you're really depressed about all of it. How do you guys go about coping with serious problems? For me it just playing video games all the time (mainly Kingsom Hearts or Final Fantasy because even though they have their own problems they always seem to come out alright in the end) I mean hell those worlds seem a lot better than the real world, but maybe there is a better way to feel better.
Title: Re: How do you all deal with non-stop problems?
Post by: Purple on December 19, 2012, 10:05:11 AM
vent art
Title: Re: How do you all deal with non-stop problems?
Post by: ·UηİŦ·· on December 19, 2012, 10:44:19 AM
blank out

do my own thing and forget there was a problem

vent art
Title: Re: How do you all deal with non-stop problems?
Post by: Prox on December 19, 2012, 10:47:34 AM
I try solving them and if it happens that I'm unable to, then I usually listen to music, or do something useful that would make me feel better or watch mlp
Title: Re: How do you all deal with non-stop problems?
Post by: Devie on December 19, 2012, 10:51:33 AM
wallow in my own sadness

or drink.
Title: Re: How do you all deal with non-stop problems?
Post by: coolzeldad on December 19, 2012, 10:58:49 AM
Drown it out with other activities :D

Like you said games are a good one imo... hmm i dun recommend drugs because of the whole permanent brain alteration factor...

Working out (especially cardio) for me helps cope with the physical side of it :o
Title: Re: How do you all deal with non-stop problems?
Post by: Sabb on December 19, 2012, 11:28:05 AM
Drown it out with other activities :D

Like you said games are a good one imo... hmm i dun recommend drugs because of the whole permanent brain alteration factor...

Working out (especially cardio) for me helps cope with the physical side of it :o
I think it's obvious by now that there needs to be some sort of distraction that works for you. For me as of somewhat recently I guess, when I'm really frustrated with something working out really helps. Not really cardio so much though, fucking hate cardio lol. Just physical exertion at least.
Title: Re: How do you all deal with non-stop problems?
Post by: Supertoaster on December 19, 2012, 01:58:23 PM
ignore it then sob in a pillow
Title: Re: How do you all deal with non-stop problems?
Post by: Cake Faice on December 19, 2012, 03:29:58 PM
I either sleep it off, and embrace on what to do to solve it, or layer over it with another activity. Usually by tomorrow, it'll be a new day until another problem occurs.

Title: Re: How do you all deal with non-stop problems?
Post by: Devie on December 19, 2012, 05:53:25 PM
it seems that guys deal with problems better than girls.. maybe its a female thing? or maybe its equally painful for both but the guy is able to mask it with his manliness. I'm not sure. All I know is, girls can break down any time of the day, when guys on the other hand, are capable of holding themselves up together.

Either way, we all can agree that these type of problems (no, not the 'i have a huge test tomorrow' kind of problems. more like, my life will change significantly because of this problem) are pretty much hard as fuck to deal with. The saying 'Life goes on" makes me want to sodomize puppies and it definitely does not help anyone going through a problem. In fact, its the opposite of what one wants.

Fuck everything, though.
Title: Re: How do you all deal with non-stop problems?
Post by: ○ Μαρία ○ on December 19, 2012, 05:57:31 PM
it seems that guys deal with problems better than girls.. maybe its a female thing? or maybe its equally painful for both but the guy is able to mask it with his manliness. I'm not sure. All I know is, girls can break down any time of the day, when guys on the other hand, are capable of holding themselves up together.

Either way, we all can agree that these type of problems (no, not the 'i have a huge test tomorrow' kind of problems. more like, my life will change significantly because of this problem) are pretty much hard as fuck to deal with. The saying 'Life goes on" makes me want to sodomize puppies and it definitely does not help anyone going through a problem. In fact, its the opposite of what one wants.

Fuck everything, though.
Basically, the last thing anyone wants to hear while going through something is "get over it, don't think about it, there are worst things in life" like yeah I am sure there are, but at the moment these problems are kind of fucking me over, and it's hard to think positive when that's the case lol.
Title: Re: How do you all deal with non-stop problems?
Post by: Devie on December 19, 2012, 06:04:39 PM
Basically, the last thing anyone wants to hear while going through something is "get over it, don't think about it, there are worst things in life" like yeah I am sure there are, but at the moment these problems are kind of fucking me over, and it's hard to think positive when that's the case lol.

pretty much sums it up, there are worst things in life yeah. but fuck man, this shit sucks.
Title: Re: How do you all deal with non-stop problems?
Post by: Sabb on December 19, 2012, 08:34:39 PM
it seems that guys deal with problems better than girls.. maybe its a female thing? or maybe its equally painful for both but the guy is able to mask it with his manliness. I'm not sure. All I know is, girls can break down any time of the day, when guys on the other hand, are capable of holding themselves up together.

Either way, we all can agree that these type of problems (no, not the 'i have a huge test tomorrow' kind of problems. more like, my life will change significantly because of this problem) are pretty much hard as fuck to deal with. The saying 'Life goes on" makes me want to sodomize puppies and it definitely does not help anyone going through a problem. In fact, its the opposite of what one wants.

Fuck everything, though.
I don't think guys are exempt from the same emotions or anything. They just hide it more. Basically taught to do that sort of...
I'm basically like that too. Except I'll show emotion but only to people I'm really close to and only what I chose to show. I never really break down unintentionally.
Title: Re: How do you all deal with non-stop problems?
Post by: Devie on December 19, 2012, 08:47:32 PM
I don't think guys are exempt from the same emotions or anything. They just hide it more. Basically taught to do that sort of...
I'm basically like that too. Except I'll show emotion but only to people I'm really close to and only what I chose to show. I never really break down unintentionally.

Basically, the last thing anyone wants to hear while going through something is "get over it, don't think about it, there are worst things in life" like yeah I am sure there are, but at the moment these problems are kind of fucking me over, and it's hard to think positive when that's the case lol.

Sometimes, it gets pathetic enough for me to actually play the sims 3 and make my life better there.
Title: Re: How do you all deal with non-stop problems?
Post by: ○ Μαρία ○ on December 19, 2012, 09:15:00 PM
Sometimes, it gets pathetic enough for me to actually play the sims 3 and make my life better there.
I am playing the Sims 3 right now. My family is 2pro. ;_;
Title: Re: How do you all deal with non-stop problems?
Post by: Supertoaster on December 19, 2012, 09:39:13 PM
last time I played the sims 3 was during my last depression mania a few months ago.

I still have Da Jonz family, a family of overweight sassy black people.
Title: Re: How do you all deal with non-stop problems?
Post by: Samo on December 20, 2012, 12:03:27 AM
Think about the entire situation like it's an episode of a comedy and just laugh it off. Compare it to another's experience and try not to act as stupid as they did. Surely it can't be too bad.

Then there's listening to some nice music while occupying yourself with a game/activity

After all that, sleep on it. Always helps everyone.
Title: Re: How do you all deal with non-stop problems?
Post by: Devie on December 20, 2012, 12:47:07 AM
Think about the entire situation like it's an episode of a comedy and just laugh it off. Compare it to another's experience and try not to act as stupid as they did. Surely it can't be too bad.

Then there's listening to some nice music while occupying yourself with a game/activity

After all that, sleep on it. Always helps everyone.

 :(
pls
Title: Re: How do you all deal with non-stop problems?
Post by: ○ Μαρία ○ on December 20, 2012, 08:17:43 AM
Think about the entire situation like it's an episode of a comedy and just laugh it off. Compare it to another's experience and try not to act as stupid as they did. Surely it can't be too bad.

Then there's listening to some nice music while occupying yourself with a game/activity

After all that, sleep on it. Always helps everyone.
I laugh so I don't cry about how fucked up everything seems. Oh well it will get better someday.
Title: Re: How do you all deal with non-stop problems?
Post by: Tiger Guy on December 20, 2012, 08:45:03 AM
Well when this kind of stuff happens to me, I just become an ass and make things worse.

Samo has a good idea, also playing vidya helps too I guess.
Title: Re: How do you all deal with non-stop problems?
Post by: Cake Faice on December 20, 2012, 02:23:27 PM
it seems that guys deal with problems better than girls.. maybe its a female thing? or maybe its equally painful for both but the guy is able to mask it with his manliness. I'm not sure. All I know is, girls can break down any time of the day, when guys on the other hand, are capable of holding themselves up together.

Either way, we all can agree that these type of problems (no, not the 'i have a huge test tomorrow' kind of problems. more like, my life will change significantly because of this problem) are pretty much hard as fuck to deal with. The saying 'Life goes on" makes me want to sodomize puppies and it definitely does not help anyone going through a problem. In fact, its the opposite of what one wants.

Fuck everything, though.
Ugh, the phrase "thinking positive" is just some shit a school counselor will tell you just so they can get on with their minimum wage career. Thinking positive does jack shit. You actually HAVE to do something about it.