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Title: Uh... well then
Post by: Captain Communism on June 12, 2012, 08:36:48 PM
So, I've been talking with this girl on steam, and she was really nice. I eventually fell for her, and told her today.

Turns out, she's a 16-year-old guy (He sent me a mugshot) and, (I'm kinda scared by this) I actually was not put off by that....

Am I becoming gay, or is it just natural?

Please keep it serious, I am genuinely confused right now.

He's bi, btw.
Title: Re: Uh... well then
Post by: Rocket50 on June 12, 2012, 08:39:44 PM
Gay. Definitely gay.
Title: Re: Uh... well then
Post by: Foofoojack on June 12, 2012, 08:41:31 PM
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Title: Re: Uh... well then
Post by: Rocket50 on June 12, 2012, 08:43:31 PM
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inb4 frank
Title: Re: Uh... well then
Post by: ○ Μαρία ○ on June 12, 2012, 08:44:07 PM
Don't become interested in people romantically that you have never physically seen or heard speak and you probably would not have this problem. Like I mean, even Skype would help you out there. I mean, if you're interested in some delinquent you apparently knew nothing about, then go for it, but it's not a very good idea. I don't think you're gay though if you though he was a "she", but still being interested even after that? :\
Title: Re: Uh... well then
Post by: Rocket50 on June 12, 2012, 08:45:06 PM
Don't become interested in people romantically that you have never physically seen or heard speak and you probably would not have this problem. Like I mean, even Skype would help you out there. I mean, if you're interested in some delinquent you apparently knew nothing about, then go for it, but it's not a very good idea. I don't think you're gay though if you though he was a "she".

Pretty much this^

also, he says he isnt put off at all that shes actually a guy
Title: Re: Uh... well then
Post by: Frank on June 12, 2012, 08:51:20 PM
I think that un-loving just because of physical differences is pretty dumb.
Title: Re: Uh... well then
Post by: Cake Faice on June 12, 2012, 08:51:35 PM
Uh, I'm sure we all went through this phase with Runescape or Maple Story, but steam. Wat. That shoulda been an indicated for you.
Title: Re: Uh... well then
Post by: Rocket50 on June 12, 2012, 08:55:38 PM
I think that un-loving just because of physical differences is pretty dumb.

You do realize, it's hormones that tell you that guys aren't what your into, even though you were into what you thought was girl
Title: Re: Uh... well then
Post by: ·UηİŦ·· on June 12, 2012, 08:57:28 PM
Don't become interested in people romantically that you have never physically seen or heard speak and you probably would not have this problem. Like I mean, even Skype would help you out there. I mean, if you're interested in some delinquent you apparently knew nothing about, then go for it, but it's not a very good idea. I don't think you're gay though if you though he was a "she", but still being interested even after that? :\

life choices
Title: Re: Uh... well then
Post by: Astropilot on June 12, 2012, 09:05:14 PM
The moments I have are when I was talking to some regular person and then they tell me that they are female. Mostly I learn by just posting linking random people those kinds of Touhou fanart.
Title: Re: Uh... well then
Post by: Seb on June 12, 2012, 09:16:01 PM
gg, dummy
Title: Re: Uh... well then
Post by: coolzeldad on June 13, 2012, 12:53:03 AM
if your pingas goes up, its a sign

if not and you still feel that way, welcome to best friends for ever.. dudes can have intimate relationships without sharing pingas
Title: Re: Uh... well then
Post by: [Valor]iPounce on June 13, 2012, 02:36:33 AM
if your pingas goes up, its a sign

if not and you still feel that way, welcome to best friends for ever.. dudes can have intimate relationships without sharing pingas
+1
Title: Re: Uh... well then
Post by: The Ghost Of Anony Mouse on June 13, 2012, 03:29:17 AM
pwnt
Title: Re: Uh... well then
Post by: Captain Communism on June 13, 2012, 07:05:19 AM
Well, we can lock this because I have gotten my answer.

One of my irl friends was talking to me about it, and that's when it hit me.

I think I'm bi.
Title: Re: Uh... well then
Post by: ○ Μαρία ○ on June 13, 2012, 07:07:11 AM
Well, we can lock this because I have gotten my answer.

One of my irl friends was talking to me about it, and that's when it hit me.

I think I'm bi.

._.

But, I thought.... you were already...

You know what, have fun with that, I wish you the best of luck.
Title: Re: Uh... well then
Post by: Sabb on June 13, 2012, 07:24:18 AM
I think that un-loving just because of physical differences is pretty dumb.
What Rocket said...
Not all guys can want the dick.
Title: Re: Uh... well then
Post by: Captain Communism on June 13, 2012, 07:26:38 AM
What Rocket said...
Not all guys can want the dick.
Totally not what I was implying with this.
Basically, I'm sexually attracted to females, but emotionally attracted to several male friends, including loving one.
Title: Re: Uh... well then
Post by: Sabb on June 13, 2012, 07:28:50 AM
Totally not what I was implying with this.
Basically, I'm sexually attracted to females, but emotionally attracted to several male friends, including loving one.
wat no...
I meant... to Frank... that not all guys are going to be open to a relationship with another guy, because not all guys are in any way attracted to other guys. (obviously)
Doesn't mean you can't like them as a friend but yea.
Title: Re: Uh... well then
Post by: Captain Communism on June 13, 2012, 07:33:16 AM
wat no...
I meant... to Frank... that not all guys are going to be open to a relationship with another guy, because not all guys are in any way attracted to other guys. (obviously)
Doesn't mean you can't like them as a friend but yea.

Oh, derp. I thought you meant that I... yeah.
Title: Re: Uh... well then
Post by: Rocket50 on June 13, 2012, 07:57:11 AM
Totally not what I was implying with this.
Basically, I'm sexually attracted to females, but emotionally attracted to several male friends, including loving one.

That's called bromance
Title: Re: Uh... well then
Post by: Frank on June 13, 2012, 10:54:55 AM
wat no...
I meant... to Frank... that not all guys are going to be open to a relationship with another guy, because not all guys are in any way attracted to other guys. (obviously)
Doesn't mean you can't like them as a friend but yea.
I meant as in

>oh you're a girl? I'll love you forever and ever

>oh, actually you're a guy? Ewww I don't want to ever talk to you again!
Title: Re: Uh... well then
Post by: Astropilot on June 13, 2012, 11:07:23 AM
Cap'n it's nothing but a little mistake! You treated someone like a girl, but then it was actually a guy. You didn't know. Nothing much.
Title: Re: Uh... well then
Post by: Seb on June 13, 2012, 12:10:30 PM
I meant as in

>oh you're a girl? I'll love you forever and ever

>oh, actually you're a guy? Ewww I don't want to ever talk to you again!

Maybe it's different to YOU, but most guys will immediately subconsciously feel disgusted, embarrassed, and not-aroused if this were to happen.
Title: Re: Uh... well then
Post by: Sabb on June 13, 2012, 12:12:20 PM
Maybe it's different to YOU, but most guys will immediately subconsciously feel disgusted, embarrassed, and not-aroused if this were to happen.
This.
You wouldn't be saying that if you were straight.